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    i have a bad habit of doing this.
    i let my imagination take over and come up with stupid ideas, situations or reasons to break up
    especially when things are going "too good"
    suspicion starts to arise
    its a mixture of that and me being afraid of commitment and serious relationships
    idk how to change that
    She talks pretty but says mean things

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mitzy View Post
    i have a bad habit of doing this.
    i let my imagination take over and come up with stupid ideas, situations or reasons to break up
    especially when things are going "too good"
    suspicion starts to arise
    its a mixture of that and me being afraid of commitment and serious relationships
    idk how to change that
    First of all, dont use your imagination as a scapegoat, but start to wonder about commitment issues. And this wasnt meant in a religious way
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    I think I just sabotaged a relationship 5 minutes ago. Damn, I can never get things right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I think I just sabotaged a relationship 5 minutes ago. Damn, I can never get things right.
    I did last night.

    Ah well. At the end of the day, at least we're ENTPs...

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmandahalf View Post
    I did last night.

    Ah well. At the end of the day, at least we're ENTPs...
    ...and female ENTPs, at that! I know I will bounce back - I'm actually not sad about it, but I feel the guilt. Which is probably the cruelest and most horrible feeling for me. blah.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I feel the guilt. Which is probably the cruelest and most horrible feeling for me. blah.
    Just cultivate having no emotions :-D Cuz that precludes the bad ones, too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by marmandahalf View Post
    Just cultivate having no emotions :-D Cuz that precludes the bad ones, too!
    I generally only have a range of about 4 emotions, maybe 5 or 6 on special occasions. Guilt is one of the 4. It will pass by tomorrow morning, but it's fucking real now.

    Sorry about your own personal sabotage...

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    Reading this makes me feel not crazy/weird. I love you guys!

    To Jenocyde and Marm:
    What I found that helps... is... forcing yourself to feel sadness. Feel their sadness. I don't know why, but it helps. Especially with the guilt. And try to rebuild that sabotaged bridge. And from that point, you've done all you can do.


    We need an ENTP support group. The arguing, the avoidance, everything. It's a very counterproductive life. But you know what? I wouldn't trade it for the world!!!
    Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FemmeUrbane View Post
    We need an ENTP support group. The arguing, the avoidance, everything. It's a very counterproductive life. But you know what? I wouldn't trade it for the world!!!
    I could not agree more.

    What I found that helps... is... forcing yourself to feel sadness. Feel their sadness. I don't know why, but it helps. Especially with the guilt. And try to rebuild that sabotaged bridge. And from that point, you've done all you can do.
    I've found that I don't too much have trouble rebuilding the bridge when it's been broken, it's the actual keeping it upright and safe that is difficult. After I've realized that I was wrong, I can manage to swallow up my pride and start over, but then it's just an endless cycle of losing interest and breaking again.

    My question is then, what type could possibly put up with this?
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    I start spinning around to the motion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FemmeUrbane View Post
    Reading this makes me feel not crazy/weird. I love you guys!

    To Jenocyde and Marm:
    What I found that helps... is... forcing yourself to feel sadness. Feel their sadness. I don't know why, but it helps. Especially with the guilt. And try to rebuild that sabotaged bridge. And from that point, you've done all you can do.


    We need an ENTP support group. The arguing, the avoidance, everything. It's a very counterproductive life. But you know what? I wouldn't trade it for the world!!!
    You know what? The guilt is gone now. Poof - just like that. Even though he's still sobbing in the next room (ugh)... My rationale took over and I realized that I did nothing wrong (I really didn't!). I decided to tell him my honest feelings and he reacted to it. I can't be responsible for his reactions, only my actions. And I feel that I was honest, fair and kind. I can't force anyone to accept the truth - and I admit it is rather hard to face, at times. But I don't believe in being a martyr or in suffering in silence.

    I can only be me, and if that's not what you want/need/like, then get to f'ing stepping. I still care for him dearly, and this is probably not our last chapter (this is +/- 10 years now...) but I won't pretend something I just don't feel, and I won't accept something I just don't like. Life is too short.

    I am so happy I found you girls, this forum and other ENTPs. It is so refreshing to feel validated for once. Or at least find others who identify with my potentially messed up train of thought. Thanks!!!

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