I just read through this entire, meandering, (pleasantly) ridiculous thread, and decided that I had to create an account, if only to say this:
ENTP women rock hard. If you don't get this, you don't get us.
Yeah, we're counter to socialization. It scares people that we're bold and assertive and witty and smart and we get what we want (though I disagree that ENTP=slut).
This is why ENTPs change the world (or could, if we wanted to). Because we're different.
To answer the question, I haven't found any boys who weren't eventually scared away by me. Granted, I'm only 19 and go to a small, religious college, so I wouldn't be surprised if I were just one of a handful of ENTPs on campus. I'm drawn to both INFJ and INTJ boys, but I get impatient with the Fe of the former, always getting emotional when I just want to discuss*, dammit. (*This might mean argue sometimes. Most of the time.) I love me some INTJ, but both boys I've dated of this sign eventually retreated to fellow INTJs. And I hate girls of that type.
So I don't know what the answer is. I can't handle Fs or especially Ss. At all.
Maybe ENTP women are just too hardcore for mere mortal men to handle? I kind of like the idea, actually.
This has been many words. I'll stop saying them now.