I didn't read what other ENTP women wrote about relationships but...
I'm happily married. It took a lot before I had a boyfriend, but in the end all was well.
I tried to give my crush 'hints' like women should do according to tradition... nothing. In the end I said him:
"Look, I have a crush on you. You can do whatever you want with it - turn me down now, accept me, but I just want you to know."
His response?
"Let's try."
Afterwards I learnt he had had a crush on me for a long time, but he never realised I was interested in him (despite my clumsy hints). It had faded down and he wasn't interested in me at that time. We tried, became a couple, became engaged and married. We know that both of us can't understand hints, so conversations go like this.
"Tamske, I really thought you would clean the house. You promised. I'm disappointed."
Or:
"Hubby, it's your turn to choose which food we'll buy for tonight."