So lots of thoughts in my fluffy head lately regarding ENTPs and issues with flirting, commitment, and maturity
I have several good case studies of ENTPs I watch. All are older-34-50.
Some seem very balanced and seem to use thier tertiary Fe to help them constrain some of the more impulsive tendencies of the Ne-Ti combination, especially with respect to social situations and monogmy.
One uses it to develop very good working relationships across departments, and gives a sense of trustworthiness and dependibility as well as sort of bowing to the system and the rules a bit more than a typical entp would.
One uses Fe to extend a "mothering" influence subconciously and seems able to nuetralize high tension situations very effectively this way.
Another-slimy-seems to lack the use of this function altogether, and possess a high degree of "moral relativity" and is not well liked.
1) When does this develop for you guys?
2) Is it painful/difficult as it develops? (ie trusting others and so on..)
3) Do you use it on purpose to influence others or does it emerge on its own at times?