Yeah I understood it, and can relate.hmm i am a narcissist, i almost dated my own type - would've but we ran out of time and never got each others phone number. he was like you crossed with Aschnitzel and mcguffin. that might be an age related thing, he might become more like mcguffin as he gets older.
in addition to what you said, i think there's understanding and appreiciating between two wotcha call its, loners/shypoeple/introverts, and thats a rare expeirence for them. i knwo that despite how quiet i am, im pretty awsome so i assume that other quiet people are also goldmines of awsomeness, plus theyre not draining or demanding - theyre luring. one of the most obsessive intense crushes ive had was over one of the most shyest of shy guys (not an intp, i suspect he was i_fp). it was sparked by the twinkle in his eye, so really he started it. once he was 'brought to my attention', the obsession began, coupled with poems and portraits. when someone mentioned how much i seemed to hate being at last weeks party, he looked over at me instinctively and intuition tells me he felt kindred which of course made me feel it too. its kind of like finally getting out the desert sun and into the shade.
people who arent in your face also let your own imagination speak for them which can leave you half in love with someone you hardly know.
its been two years since ive actually been in his presence and me heart still skips when i see a photo of him over facebook or something. if ever manages to get a girlfriend ill think ill have to step out of the bushed by his window and come clean... or threaten her.. w/e works out.
im pretty tired so im cant tell if any of this makes sense
Me crossed with MacGuffin and A Schnitzel, eh? Sounds interesting.