Not every ENFP will tell you that how you live is wrong, sweety. Some identify very much with constantly being told that your way of living, of being is wrong and the frustration and aggrevation it causes.
But even so, many of us will gladly back off if you indicate that you'd rather not be around us. At least, I don't tend to stay where I'm not wanted. Too bad though...I enjoyed bantering back and forward with ya
One last time of pushing your buttons though...just to get the thread back on topic:
It wouldn't hurt you to smile once in a while