But you both broke even, as, this same dude played you and hurt you because he showed that you were a game to him. No?I have a confession....
I have been torturing the slimy ENTP who was in my number 1 post...He is an extraoridinarily defective, insecure ENTP. Complete jerk to many of the folks we work with.
I find all types of things to do to fuck with his ego and I pick at his insecurities. Then I smile and pretend like its all a funny joke-which it may be depending upon the day...
It's like I am playing, then I really am playing, then I am evil-but just for a tiny bit-then I am playing again, but it is so playfully evil.
Mostly I make fun of his degree, his IQ, call him dr velco because he is almost as smart as velco, make fun of his academic pedigree, tell how much my most favoritist person ever is engineer X or Y, point out how our best scientist is actually Z, while he is part of the conversation. I also mistitle him and give him titles that are way below his real status in emails, let him know his patents are not applicable or even very good, and send his emails with read reciept implying he is too irresponsible to actually read them. He constantly tries to flirt with me and I pretend like I just dont get it and avoid eye contact or look at him like he has confused me w someone else. Then I wear skirts combined with cardigans that make it look like I almost am not wearing a skirt given the visual contrast. I schedule meetings, then reschedule but dont update him so he ends up missing the meeting, but let him know we worked it all in phone conversations we never had. My entp friend confirms that it is like watching a lion (him) hunting for prey (me) when he is around me. The she says I just wonder off obliviously, singing happy enfp silliness, and he just looks confused.
He was in town this week and started the week calling me sunshine and saying my toddler's pictures were pretty. By the end of the week he was drunk and talking about finding hookers.
Now I have new ammunition.
On a side note my Te finds him to be useful to the mission and employs his ideas diligently and with great dedication. He is a very valuable COG and does contribute adequately if funneled and contained properly in the right direction, and kept isolated from others given his lack of social skills.
I am going to a special Fi hell one day for evil Fis.