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    Uhm, excuse me, but OP said they were older, and eight, at the least, is hardly "every person on the planet". Maybe OP is simply more open to trying things out. Myself, I don't like "dating" and have only ever had two serious relationships that naturally evolved from acquaintances. One that I can't quite type, INFJ???? Maybe? He was so poorly developed, I can't be sure. Anyway, the second is a lovely INTJ. I'm an ENTP and have, in studying type theory, determined that this is the ideal type for me. This does not mean that all INTJs are attractive, (I know one who is a brother-friend) or that no other type is attractive. I merely determined that INTJs are more likely than another type to be a good relationship choice, provided that the bits of them that exist outside type theory are also compatible. If incompatible, I would predict explosions.

    Anyway, I think type theory is as applicable to romantic relationships as it is to anything else- that is, it is relevant, but nothing to base the entirely of your decisions on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lulabelle View Post
    so you think ENFJs and INFPs are not well matched with thinking types?

    also, i think most INTPs would never ever in a million years date an ESTJ. spectacularly incompatible match.
    These are only theoretical "best" matches. In actuality, people shouldn't be limiting themselves to certain types to begin with, and should only use typology to know how to best understand somebody they're already interested in.
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    I don't subscribe to the idea of limiting one's partners to a specific type, EXCEPT... I've only dated extroverts in the past, and in every instance, we ended up driving each other crazy. Granted, I've only been in three relationships, but it just wasn't a good combination. I know other people thrive on the introvert/extrovert dynamic, but it doesn't seem to work for me. I've found that the people I get along best with are the ones who are more like me — that is, quiet, introspective, and relatively low energy. Being around extroverts for too long leaves me mentally and emotionally exhausted.

    I will say that in my experience, I've gotten along very well with INFPs, INFJs, INTPs, and even ISTJs... provided they're not too close-minded. I really like ENTPs, but their intensity combined with their extroversion wears me out.

    I would probably get on well with other INTJs, but I don't know any.
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    Married to an ISTJ for ten years. Bored the crap out of me.
    Had a short-term relationship with an ENTP that went from a lot of crazy fun to a hellish nightmare, in the space of a couple of months.
    INTPs for me thanks. My SO is one. Low drama, independent, interesting and lots of fun. Great lovers too.

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    I need some E, from there I'm pretty open-- my favorites are probably ESTP, ENTP and ENFJ.

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    I found INTPs are surprisingly very physically affectionate, you have to preen them off you. It's adorable sometimes; ISFJs seem to love their infantile Fe most (whilst pretending to be nonchalant).
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    Quote Originally Posted by Deceptive View Post
    I found INTPs are surprisingly very physically affectionate, you have to preen them off you. It's adorable sometimes
    I've noticed this myself with my SO of this type.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Coriolis View Post
    I've noticed this myself with my SO of this type.
    Is your SO's idea of romance more conventional, too?

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    Apparently ENTP are crossed off the list as long term partners. Guess it makes sense I'm most drawn to ENTP women, as rare as they are.
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    For INTPs, imo the best matches would be ENFJ and INTJ. INFX either e1 or e9, also. E4 = trouble.

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