Hmm, mission 'attempt at seducing you by luring you into seducing me' is a failure.
Perhaps that works better on ESFJ's. *ponders*
Last Saturday: I walked to the bar at a DnB party to get a drink at. I passed a girl I had not particular taken notion of.
Girl: "I like your shirt.
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Me (Not becoming a total failure when in these situations): "Thanks. I like it too. Apparently it gets girls to notice me."
Girl: "HAHA, That's sooooo true. Hi, I'm [*]."
At that point I was already thinking: 'Wow, what a nice and interesting girl." But I decided to play it cool at first. After a while of conversation this girl wants me to go outside with her so she could smoke. I said no, but let her go and told her if she wanted to continue conversation she could always tap me on my shoulder later. She did and you should've seen the look on my friends faces when an unknown girl took me by the arm and we started talking as if we'd known each other for years. It took this girl only minutes to turn me from a rational thinking, rather aloof man who prefers his comfort zone, into the most interested, luckiest feeling, man in the world.
And as she later told me she was immediately fond of me as well. Her interest right in the beginning resulted in, that despite me usually keeping my own thoughts and experiences to myself, I told her a lot of personal stories throughout that night.
See people, it can be that simple to seduce an INTP. The point is that sometimes it's better to quickly catch our interest, and get the familiarisation later on.