Remember to fill in the circle completely.
I like to throw live chickens. That's always a crowd pleaser.They might not even do it consciously, but they will throw things out there to see what your reaction will be, especially if she's really uncertain!
Treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen. Also, angry and annoyed, and possibly hating you more than they hate asparagus.
On a serious note, I don't advise "enigma" pairings. They always seem to lead to disaster. Besides, why chase something you don't instinctively understand? IMO, a total waste of time. Unless of course you enjoy being confused and run in circles.