I really just want to say "Don't try"
but it's more like
don't be around too often/don't stalk (stalking includes running up to talk before/after classes about nothing and acting kiss-ass-like and too happy-smiley)
*i'm kind of annoyed by someone atm
i tend to be drawn to people who don't come off as being interested in me
EDIT: be honest, and don't use false compliments, it's usually easy to detect forced flattery
EDIT^2: I don't know if any of the other INTPs think this... but questions drive me insane. Questions about me, specifically. If we're talking about something that has nothing to do with myself or the other person, then it's fine, but otherwise, they make me crazy. No questions!