I don't mind ENTJ's who have been brought up in the right way. I know a few ENTJ's who have been spoiled sick and they are filthy and absolutely insane and I can't stand them. However, I don't mind ENTJ's when they've been brought up normally.
Is it that by its indefiniteness it shadows forth the heartless voids and immensities of the universe, and thus stabs us from behind with the thought of annihilation, when beholding the white depths of the milky way?
One of my best friends in college was an ENTJ - she's awesome. I actually really admire her. I love her humor, drive, confidence, and sass. She's also one who loves to debate, so can be fun to watch - esp. since it's something I don't do. And she was definitely the center of attention in the engineering school as a result of all of these qualities!! Those engineering guys flocked to her. But I think she was a bit too much for most of them to handle.
I've also been really close friends with an enTJ for several yrs now, and know a third male ENTJ who's pretty interesting. I don't have any problems w/ the ones I know!
"...On and on and on and on he strode, far out over the sands, singing wildly to the sea, crying to greet the advent of the life that had cried to him." - James Joyce
i dont know any entj. i just knew that one fat teenage guy, who looked a bit like bill hicks or russel crowe and wasn't ever friendly or sincere or honest, just a random prick.
on the other hand i know ken wilber, who is my personal jesus, but also beyond type
(i am just guessing that he is entj at the core)
so i assume the spectrum is broad....
also, i did have occasional fantasies about entj women with strapon dildos, but i cannot see, how i could possibly have any kind of realtionship to an entj (and i am not doing the slave thing for real).