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    ^I'm not sure how well that would go over with most ENTJ females. I generally recoil from this sort of approach, even if I do like the person. I do like someone who takes the time to let me know my thoughts/presence is appreciated, but the "you're hot/I like you" from someone I don't really know puts me on the defensive pretty quickly.

    Blackcat, is there some reason you want an ENTJ female in particular?

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    Quote Originally Posted by juggernaut View Post
    ^I'm not sure how well that would go over with most ENTJ females. I generally recoil from this sort of approach, even if I do like the person. I do like someone who takes the time to let me know my thoughts/presence is appreciated, but the "you're hot/I like you" from someone I don't really know puts me on the defensive pretty quickly.
    You're right, of course, courting a woman is quite different from courting a man, but I did not know the sex of Black Cat eheh
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    Quote Originally Posted by juggernaut View Post
    Blackcat, is there some reason you want an ENTJ female in particular?
    The ones I've met have been wonderful. I've gotten along with them very well, and I accept the "alpha female" attitude (taking that with a grain of salt... this term is misused constantly). I have found that I have an over developed T side of myself for an INFP, and that the ENTJs I know reinforce this pretty well from my interactions with them. I will be talking and apply some sort of logic to it, then lo and behold the ENTJ I'm talking to will pipe up with something brilliant to expand on that that I didn't think of before. If it's a female in my mind I will be thinking "Oh really now? "

    The whole "intimidating" quality that people see ENTJs as having just doesn't really phase me. I usually see right through it (if it's even there). The up front style of communication is refreshing to me, and I tend to be an up front person as well. Other than that... There's just something about you people that makes me super attracted. The chemistry I've had mentally is great (With both male and females). The ones I've met have been cool (when healthy of course), and we enjoy each other's company.

    Maybe I'm just weird, masochistic, or something. I hear horror stories about ENTJs from INFPs, and I'm like when I hear about how things went wrong and stuff, since most of the problems the INFP had in the relationship I can't relate to (this was about general interaction and stuff, not anything relationship specific).

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    I did not know the sex of Black Cat eheh
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    Lol...that is the thing about ENTJs, even though they are social and extraverts they are 'lone wolfs' because they are so goal oriented and
    into pushing limits to prove they can do things not everybody thinks
    they can do...I don't think it can be done. I've had several people pu-
    rsue me because they were used to being take charge and starting
    cliques or guys that just dated who was available and were technically
    'jokes' and I eluded every one of them. they are leaders, just not every-
    one follows. best way to pursue an entj and get them romantically int-
    erested in you is to talk about things that actually interest you and
    things that interest them intellectually because they find conversations
    where people are 'for real' more stimulating than someone that just tells
    them what they think they want to hear.

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    How do you pursue an ENTJ?

    Run and trigger the pounce instinct?

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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    How do you pursue an ENTJ?

    Run and trigger the pounce instinct?
    Bingo. But you could be setting yourself up for cat and mouse.

    My ENTJ neighbor was lying in wait on his porch when I got home last night so there was no chance of sneaking past. But he was waiting with a gin and tonic. Which, after a doom-and-gloom university budget update meeting, was greatly appreciated. In fact, I could get used to that. There's just never any guarantee it will continue.
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    *sigh*

    I wish I could remember, cos my ones are all gone AWOL and right now I could really use one...
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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    I need some suggestions. I've been talking to someone for a little while that I met over the net that lives nearby. It was on a website for match-making, I've pretty much typed her as ENTJ or possibly ESTJ, but she said she loves deep conversations and theory. So I'm going with ENTJ. She said she went on there for "friends" but also mentioned "meeting someone."

    Any suggestions? Anything would be appreciated.
    How do you pursue an ENTJ?

    You run in the opposite direction.

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    So basically what I'm getting out of this is if I act like myself (all of this advice pertains to how I typically act) then I will be fine.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Helios View Post
    How do you pursue an ENTJ?

    You run in the opposite direction.
    Yeah. That would get my attention.

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