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    Default INTJ and infatuation

    What's it like for all you INTJs when you get infatuated with someone? How would you signal your interest?

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    We're INTJs, we wouldn't!
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    Quote Originally Posted by EffEmDoubleyou View Post
    We're INTJs, we wouldn't!
    Sad aren't we.

    I showed my interest by sitting on my husband's lap in a hot tub. I'm very subtle.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pippi View Post
    Sad aren't we.

    I showed my interest by sitting on my husband's lap in a hot tub. I'm very subtle.

    rofl
    "The purpose of life is to be defeated by greater and greater things." - Rainer Maria Rilke

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    If we're paying any attention to you at all, and especially if we're the one to initiate contact, we're interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SurlyAdam View Post
    If we're paying any attention to you at all, and especially if we're the one to initiate contact, we're interested.
    Uh, no. I pay attention to and initiate contact with plenty of men I'm not interested in. Of course, I'm of the odd sort of INTJ who actually socializes!

    Quote Originally Posted by Rangler View Post
    How would you signal your interest?
    Like pippi, I'm not exactly subtle if I choose to signal my interest. Whether I choose to do so hinges on whether I believe the interest is reciprocated. Incidentally, my judgment on that score has historically not been great; when I was an ugly duckling in my teens I threw myself at a couple of guys who were not interested, and conversely, I have also kidded both others and myself that I was not interested when I was. I'm pretty transparent though and hence amenable to the usual tests of interest - not relaxing around the object of my affection, blushing and not knowing what to do with myself if ambiguously teased or complimented by said person, etc.

    If in doubt about an INTJ's interest, just flirt, and if nothing seems to come of it, flirt harder. You'll either soon be rejected in no uncertain terms or break down their defenses and all of a sudden have a surprisingly happy and desirous INTJ on your hands. - Good luck with that.

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    yeah-you all are very direct in a vulnerable-indirect way
    "when are you coming over here"
    "I need my Avery-time"
    I N V I C T U S

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    Quote Originally Posted by pippi View Post
    I showed my interest by sitting on my husband's lap in a hot tub. I'm very subtle.
    *hi-five* love it!

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    If it's just infatuation, I keep it to myself until it dies a few weeks later.

    If it's a genuine interest, I'll talk to you. I'll even talk on the phone and over AIM, two things I really don't like!

    I'm a female if it matters?

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    Did a p already made the infartuation joke ? No ? Well, here ya go
    [URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEBvftJUwDw&t=0s[/URL]

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