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    Does not compute

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    Like pippi, I'm not exactly subtle if I choose to signal my interest. I'm pretty transparent though and hence amenable to the usual tests of interest - not relaxing around the object of my affection, blushing and not knowing what to do with myself if ambiguously teased or complimented by said person, etc.
    True. I'm not exactly subtle when I want someone (if they don't want me more, in which case I have a history of sabotaging myself by losing interest)...I'll try to be around them and devise plans to that effect, corner them and ask them if they are going to that party as well etc...It's all very non-verbal and weird and probably too intense and serious and stuff - success rate has been highly disappointing, but meh. Pay attention to what we do, not to what we say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pippi View Post
    Sad aren't we.

    I showed my interest by sitting on my husband's lap in a hot tub. I'm very subtle.
    Funny you said that, I met this INTJ woman and things started heating up the same way, she "subtly" sat on my lap, and, you know .... poor thing, she didn't know what she got herself into.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Psychicman7 View Post
    Funny you said that, I met this INTJ woman and things started heating up the same way, she "subtly" sat on my lap, and, you know .... poor thing, she didn't know what she got herself into.
    I think you may now be married, you just don't realise it. Congrats

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
    I think you may now be married, you just don't realise it. Congrats
    Not quite the stereotype, but close
    But then again, what is a relationship!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Economica View Post
    Like pippi, I'm not exactly subtle if I choose to signal my interest.
    Same.

    I'm very direct. If I'm interested in someone, I make it known in a very clear manner. No mincing words. Of course, I get to know individuals over a long period of time before reaching the point of deciding to date. Yet, I don't wait to see if there's any romantic inclination on their part first. I just go for it.

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