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    Default entp women - dating

    hey girls,
    i was wondering - generally, do you like to pursue or be pursued? i love to pursue, because those who usually pursue me have no idea what they're getting into. flings, however - are a different matter - i don't mind being pursued there, but in terms of relationships, people who generally express interest me take me at face value for some "cute little asian girl" and then gradually (and to their horror jk) discover the rational 'minimal bullshit please' mind that lies beneath their contrived images.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyz22 View Post
    no-bullshit
    I thought you said you were Ne dominant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    I thought you said you were Ne dominant.
    lies!:SaiyanSmilie_anim:

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    I know what you mean. Guys who pursue me say they are attracted to my sense of humor, intelligence, and confidence. Ultimately, they are horrified by the nagging fear that I may be funnier, smarter, and more confident than they are.
    If thou hast T already, first get UT.
    Then get O.
    And so at last get OUT.
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    i need to watch this thread!

    1. ENTP female has been "pursuing me" for the last few weeks. (like i mean we both initiate, but for a girl she does an awful lot of the initiating- which is awesome)
    2. were both very like "in your face" and crazy, lots of laughing n "arm touch/etc" when we are face to face.
    3. for some reason its been REALLY slow n progressing anything physical...which is the total opposite of what i thought ENTP behavior was... finally got a kiss, but it was so brief im not sure if it was a "pitty" kiss or what...

    I thought ENTPs pretty much just went straight for their whims? or do they like to 'toy with you'? (its frustrating for mr "XXTJ" who just wants to go A to B haha)

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    "ENTP female" is the only type I haven't met in person.

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    Default "Advice" (LOL, yeah)

    You must be so awfully tormented.

    Just find a lighthearted way to challenge her to take things further. If she's interested, she'll respond to the opportunity.

    We toy around with guys a lot but it sounds like she actually likes you. She may be worried that you're gonna hit it and quit it. But it's hard to say without knowing more.
    If thou hast T already, first get UT.
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    And so at last get OUT.
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    If I go with someone else pursuing me they usually turn out to be the wrong sort, like Desiree they are attracted to my perceived confidence and lack of pretence, seems blunt is attractive to some but they usually turn out to be the kind of guys who can't match me in that area so the interest isn't mutual, I don't like kicking someone's ass if they're not going to turn it back around on me in good humour.

    I'm pretty shy though so pursing others only happens if I have more than a passing interest but when that is the case I will be pretty bluntly interested.

    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    I thought ENTPs pretty much just went straight for their whims? or do they like to 'toy with you'? (its frustrating for mr "XXTJ" who just wants to go A to B haha)
    The toying/playing with is half the fun. It also shows us what you're made of while we're still trying to figure you out and allows for some confidence that you're actually interested to be gained. But mostly itís fun

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    I'm rarely interested in anyone, but when I see someone I like, I go for it with no fear or reservation. I don't like to be pursued by men, as most men don't like it when they find out that you don't need them. Silly male ego thing.

    And yes, I also toy with my prey before attacking.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jenocyde View Post
    I'm rarely interested in anyone, but when I see someone I like, I go for it with no fear or reservation. I don't like to be pursued by men, as most men don't like it when they find out that you don't need them. Silly male ego thing.

    And yes, I also toy with my prey before attacking.
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