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    Question Would you try to date me?

    To be honest I know almost nothing about this and I never had a opportunity to see where I stand in this. Since most of you know me for sometime it occured to me that I could pop up the question/thread.

    Why yes, why not ?



    Btw I am a heterosexual male.
    I don't mind bluntness if that would make things easier to say.
    If it is not obvious I am asking purely from personality perspective.

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    You can be as straight as you want, but if you keep asking me to try and date you, I can guarantee people are going to start asking questions.

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    I definitely wouldn't play a game of chess with you but I really don't know you well enough to say yay or nay.
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    No. (I am female.)

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    you want blunt?

    i would not...i don't know you very well but i need to be with someone that at least understands an emotional perspective even if they don't share it.
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    I would antisocial... I love a challenge... but not so fond of punches in the face for shedding a tear over my dog dying! sooooo be gentle with me and I'll be gentle with you
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    (Other than the fact that I don't know you, you live far away, we are fluent in different languages, etc.)

    Speaking purely from a theoretical personality standpoint... definitely no. Maybe after you take a sociology course. And a psychology course.

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    I actually view antisocial's awareness of his lack of emotional intelligence as something that most people who are emotionally unintelligent fail to realize about themselves. So that's kind of leaps and bounds ahead of the curve.

    This reminds me of knowing a few people who have been married three times or more before they start figuring out what the whole marriage thing is about. Third time may be a charm, but I certainly wouldn't want to be one and two. The life of a lab rat is not a merry one.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    i certainly hope you were not calling me emotionally unintelligent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by erinavery View Post
    i certainly hope you were not calling me emotionally unintelligent.
    Uh, why would you think I was? I was responding to the OP.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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