I've actually already set up a "meeting" with him, in order to discuss the gravity of the situation. I don't even think he realizes how close I'm to doorslam him (I have an INFJ friend to guide me with that ), he's just waiting for me to realize my folly and say that I'm sorry or something like this.
Anyways, I see two sides in him. One is macho, who's mostly interested in watching sports (ice-hockey, football, boxing, wrestling), drinking beer and hanging out in bars. And one is hilarious, imaginative and enthusiastic. He'd be an amazing movie director.
I hate the first and like the latter... and lately he has been more of the first one.
Well, if he can't appreciate me, then off he goes.