dont try to achieve higher then her for a couple reasons:
a) you won't
b) it will prolly piss her off
c) she'll find you boring because you like the same things
d) you won't
be yourself, that always works
and being yourself is good advise because if you have to be someone else for her to like you then she isn't liking you for you and then it isn't "true" love as some romance buffs might say. and then you have to keep acting like someone else and that is extremely difficult to keep up, though possible i suppose.