Title says it all.
I realised my dad was an ESTJ last night after reading the parent-child section of Please Understand Me ii (PUM 2).
Last 6 months we have been at each others necks constantly and its doing my head in. My mum doesn't help much as he doesn't listen to her, although he seems to think he does. I think she is an SF of somesort and probably an J.
Its hell and after reading PUM 2 i'm a touch worried since i leave home this summer and in the rational child guardian parent section it says that rationals often argue with SJs especially STJs and can often become estranged (is that the word) from STJs. I'm actually not bothered by it that much right now tbh but i know it will bother me in the future if it happens and right now its looking very likely.
Help! Can anyone offer any advice to making things better or atleast making life torrable untill i leave?
EDIT: If it helps at all most of the arguements starts getting worse since i became more extravated and discovered my Ne. He hates all my typical INTP jokes as well which have become more frequent since my Ne.