If it takes time for a person to understand me, it's not worth it to me. The connection was instantaneous and so strong that we (especially him) totally changed our lives just to be with one another. To others, it may have seemed like a quick and drastic move for two people who barely knew each other, but it never seemed odd to us at all.
We haven't been married that long (one year in March), but I don't see things changing (and I try to objectively consider that possibility).
I think online is probably the best place to meet an NT woman, but if you push it too much, it won't work. I thought that I was just having a conversation with someone, but then it turned into something totally unexpected and wonderful.
Thread: Where do you find NT women?
01-23-2009, 10:56 AM #181
01-23-2009, 11:30 AM #182
I totally saw this coming.
(I don't think he even read the thread, he had Tallulah give him the executive overview!)
So if it wasn't a personal topic, how did you both start talking that first time where it all "clicked" ... and how long did you know each other online before you talked that time?"Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"
“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft
01-23-2009, 12:12 PM #183
I think it clicked from the beginning, which was just through PM exchanges. (We did "meet" at a meetup before, but didn't say more than a couple sentences to each other). Initially we both had a similar interest, which was to just get information about the other person. He said it was because he was trying to get more information on what type he was.
And I fell for it!
At first, we were paranoid and suspicious of the other person's motives, but I quickly felt comfortable sharing information with him. Maybe it was because he was being uncharacteristically self-conscious and cute.
We started talking frequently at the end of May/beginning of June 07. I visited him at the beginning of July. . . and by September, he moved and we were living together.
(And yes. Of course he didn't read the thread)
01-23-2009, 02:50 PM #184
I'm fairly new here and hadn't heard this story before. So now I just have one thing to say: awwwwwwwwww. Seriously, that just makes me feel all warm and fuzzy - how awesome for you 2 to have found each other!"Only an irrational dumbass, would burn Jews." - Jaguar
"please give concise answers in plain English" - request from Provoker
01-23-2009, 03:36 PM #185
01-23-2009, 03:38 PM #186
01-23-2009, 03:50 PM #187
This thread should be called "WHERE THE NT WOMEN ARE"...
Like "where the wild things are".Practice random kindness and senseless acts of beauty.
01-23-2009, 04:32 PM #188
01-24-2009, 12:51 PM #189
01-24-2009, 03:09 PM #190
Second that...especially about the guy thing!
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