Yeah, I mean, I can be both sweet and feminine. But probably not in the traditional sense. I'm not going to be all, "OMG WHAT A BIG STRONG MAN! HOW DO YOU THINK UP ALL THE STUFF YOU THINK UP!?" I'm going to approach a guy, intellectually speaking, the same way I would a girl friend of mine. My relationships are always going to be partnerships of equals. Some guys just don't a) want that, or b) know what to do with that.
Objectively speaking, I think I'm very kind, and I can be very supportive. But it's just not in a "you have a penis, so you must be smarter and better than me" way. I don't think I'm "nurturing." That sounds maternal, to me.
btw, I think Synarch has always said he wanted an INFJ chick. It's come up a lot. Edit: Having read that post, it sounds like he's saying that INTJ/ENTP could work, but that he prefers more nurturing than an INTJ generally gives.
Some of the INTJ womenz here must be starting to woooo him. The poor bastid.
Originally Posted by Costrin
I tend to approach relationships (not that I have much experience here) as a friendship, except more intimate.
Friendship FTW! I have never fallen in love with someone I wasn't friends with first. (And friends for a very long time at that)
NT women have a pretty good idea what they are getting with an NT male. For some bizarre reason NT men haven't come to the realization that NT women are just them with boobs.
Synarch was describing wanting an NT women (in another thread) and in the same sentence he said he liked women who are sweet and feminine. Um... not the at the top of the list of words usually associated with NT women.
NT's have feelings too, ya know [or at least i do]. it just comes in with time & patience and the right person.