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[NT] Who are your best non-NT friends?

uncommonentity

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ENFJ Females. They're the only type other than ones in the NT bracket who aren't as I'd say 'easy'. They're somewhat intelligent, opinionated and down for a laugh. I don't feel like I'm babysitting with an ENFJ.
 

redcheerio

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MBTI Type
ENTP
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E9
Best non-NT friends:

ENFJ female (high school BF)
ENFJ female (uni BF)
ENFP female (another uni BF)
INFJ female (another uni BF)
ENFP female (BF from first city away from home)
INFP female (BF in current city)
ENFJ female (close friend from last workplace)
INFJ, ESFP sisters, INFP mom

(recognizing the effects of being an enneagram sx dom here, haha)

Best NT friends:

INTJ husband
INTJ dad
INTP, ENTP males - fav friends for LMAO, 3 more best friends fr uni
(ENFP females also great for lmao, not enough female NTPs in the world!! Not sure if I know any irl, boo)
ex-boyfriends: INTP, ISFJ, INTP, ENTP

When I first met my husband, I thought he was INTP because he was creative and interesting to talk to, but then I realized he is INTJ. It's good I didn't recognize that because at the time, I thought I wouldn't date a J. I'm pretty extreme NP, so was worried a J would be nagging and annoyed at me all the time. He isn't an extreme J, and I'm glad it worked out this way. He does get annoyed with my P ways sometimes, but is very patient, and is a great influence on me. We balance each other out nicely. :)
 

Regan

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my best friend is an ISTP. at least two other of my closest friends are XSTP's.
 

Craft

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INFJ
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5w7
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sx/so
ESTP and ISTP. As child playmates.

Then later, INFJ.
 

bcubchgo

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ENTJ
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3w4
childhood: INTP and ESTJ best friends
teenager: ESTJ, ENTP friends
adult: ENFP best friend, I know more EST and IST types in general though. I don't have too many other "intuitive" friends it seems. I also don't know a lot of feelers it seems.
 

Undeclared

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I'm somewhat knew to this typology system. I just recently realized that I wasn't crazy and there is people like me xD. Is there some sort of key to telling a persons type other than just reading everything about every single type and then determining after all that? :mellow:
 

Asterion

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My best friend is an ISTJ E1, we just see the world the same way, and our conversations are usually interesting or hilarious.
 

Nic

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I like NF types.

ENFP--2 of my closest friends are ENFPs. One of them has a wicked wit and comes across as an ENTP a lot. The other is a strong ENFP. We do zany things together. Sometimes my blunt sense of humor makes her cry, but she's a weepy sort of person. This friendship is probably my most rewarding and most difficult.

INFP--One of the most generous people I know. He also sometimes comes across as an NT (he's a scientist), but his hospitality and warmth are definitely NF.

INFJ--Long time friend. I love her to death, but we speak two very different languages. My only complaint with her is that she often claims to understand people's motivations for their actions, but she often misinterprets mine.

I have one close ISTJ friend, but we end up arguing a lot. I think the debate is a rollicking good time, but he ends up mad sometimes.
 

entropie

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My best friend is my gf an infp and thats about it. If I would want I could adapt to anyone resulting in different gravenesses of a headache. Therefore I tend to stay without close friends.
 

ceecee

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I have an ENFP best girlfriend. I love her, I really do but I get weary of the - "XYZ makes me nervous to even think about". Or "How can you not understand the protests in Wisconsin and recalling the governor, blah blah blah?" How do you get nervous about things you may or may not even need to do and it's not that I don't care about WI and the governor. Well, no I don't especially care but I don't work for a union and almost no one I know works for a union and they seem to do ok.
 

Sigil

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INTJ
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My best friend is an ISTP. He's a lot of fun to be around but the second I start discussing philosophy or some new scientific theory I've read about, he just zones out. Other than him, there's an INFJ I'm very close to. She's a very deep and interesting person but also a fatalist so it can be difficult talking to her.
 

gmanyo

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I don't even think I have any close NT friends. My closest friends are two ENFPs, an ISFP, an ESFP, an ISFP (maybe ISTP), two ESTPs, an ESTJ, an ISFJ and one guy who is probably some sort of ST but maybe, just maybe NT.
 

spiderfrommars

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sp/so
ENFP, ESFJ, ESTP, ISTP, ENFP. It's the ENFPs I have the best rapport with. I love Ne.
 

Stigmata

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INFJs. I've had almost an instant friendship with every INFJ I've come across.
 

Lottie

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sx/sp
ENFP, ISTP, ESFP.
 

azulatheavatar

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probably my best friend is not an intj since nobody i met in person really is like me and i consider him my best friend. no idea his type but what i know i truly doubt he is my type.

to edit this, i got my best friend to take the test and he got estj. time to go and look that up. :)
 
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