Back out of my cave. I want him and so I'm pursuing him. I'll give it another 6 months until I move on. There is no one else in sight anyway.
Dear oh dear oh dear. Exactly as I predicted, nothing we say will have any effect whatsoever. Marie here was only looking for reinforcement, not rationality.
When six months comes and goes, where will you be? Unless someone better comes along, you'll likely not want to move on then. It's easier to say "six months from now" than "right now," in six months.
Okay...now I understand! This guy picked on me from the beginning and stilll does. He is a master at pushing my buttons. He also proclaimed that he can't be hurt so I have been attempting to find and push his as well. Sometimes he comes back with subtle but scathing remarks that have sent me running to my therapist. I've grown thick skin over the past few months. Since he is a weak "p" perhaps it's the INTJ side that can bring me to tears? Otherwise most times he is very gentle.
That's not his "INTJ side" (if he's INTP). It's him.
What would hurt an INTP. I tease alot and sometimes he laughs and sometimes he bites back, very hard. I haven't figured out yet what buttons are off limits.
The only thing I can think of is permanent physical injury, or let him believe he's getting something he really wants (which doesn't seem to be you, as you know), and take it away.