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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Flak View Post
    It seems likely to me.

    It could of course be that in your absence, he thinks he likes you more than he thought he did when you were present, which is no better a scenario. After you're back together, reversion occurs.

    The sad state of affairs is that the vast majority of relationships which are conditional on sustained mutual interest don't last. To be optimistic about one which doesn't even look promising is asking for a let-down.
    Right again. My marriage to an NF didn't last despite all we had in common. How could I think this one could last. How InfP of me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    I'd take that bet.
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    On which side?
    The usual meaning of the phrase.

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    worried he was insensitive previously, and is being a nice guy
    Unlikely.

    If he was worried about being insensitive, he would a) not have ignored the girl for a month after they slept together and b) have addressed the issue and set her straight about his level of interest.
    He's not a nice guy - he's a bit of a selfish jerk who is probably hedging his bets.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Siegfried View Post
    You are?
    Time to face the music.

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    hugs for ya marie...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie View Post
    Time to face the music.
    Wait, wait, this is not cool.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Siegfried View Post
    Wait, wait, this is not cool.
    I'm not going to hold on to false hopes. I'm not settling for "just friends" either. I have too much pride.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    If he was worried about being insensitive, he would a) not have ignored the girl for a month after they slept together and b) have addressed the issue and set her straight about his level of interest.
    He's not a nice guy - he's a bit of a selfish jerk who is probably hedging his bets.
    I didn't mean to say it would be so cut and dry. You know people are shifty beasts.

    I think we're both right, to be honest. After a period of cool-down, he realized he was being a jerk, and is also keeping his options open.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie View Post
    I'm not going to hold on to false hopes. I'm not settling for "just friends" either. I have too much pride.
    Didn't you want things casual for now? I'm sure he can come out of his cave if you don't want that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Siegfried View Post
    Didn't you want things casual for now? I'm sure he can come out of his cave if you don't want that.

    I know what I want but I don't think he knows what he wants. I don't know how to proceed. I have to go into my cave now and think. I thank everyone for your input.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marie View Post
    I know what I want but I don't think he knows what he wants. I don't know how to proceed. I have to go into my cave now and think. I thank everyone for your input.
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