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    Okay ... I've been giving it some thought, and I realized there is a situation --other than rejection from a loved one--that would truly have the power to hurt me.


    If something I did caused damage--not "hurt someone's feelings" but caused actual harm--I'd be absolutely devastated.


    Example: If I pioneered a technology that ruined numerous people's lives (note: not with the potential to ruin ... it's an important distinction), I'd probably want to commit suicide because I'd feel the planet would be better off without me.

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    I got my feelings hurt tonight when someone suggested I was being inconsistent in condemning someone for being ostentatious while having that same quality. I think I was offending by the person suggesting I was ostentatious more than being inconsistent.

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    When peole are rude, I am more amused than hurt.
    They are rude because they are hurt.

    Why they are hurt?
    Because their judgement is not based on what is.
    It is based on their interpretation of what is.

    They say Fi and Ti are subjective.
    Fi and Ti are subjective to the object.

    They say Fe and Te are objective.
    Yes.
    Fe and Te are objective.

    To the subject.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    I got my feelings hurt tonight when someone suggested I was being inconsistent in condemning someone for being ostentatious while having that same quality. I think I was offending by the person suggesting I was ostentatious more than being inconsistent.
    That reminds me of something off-topic I think: I hate it when people suggest that they are right about something because you were hurt by it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eldanen View Post
    That reminds me of something off-topic I think: I hate it when people suggest that they are right about something because you were hurt by it.
    Heh. "No, I'm mad because you're a fucking asshole" would be a good response.

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    I don't know if my input is what you were looking for, since I'm an ENxP, but here you go.

    The best way to "hurt my feelings" (I'd say offend is a better term), is to in some way tell me that I'm irrational or don't know what I'm talking about. This mostly just pertains to an area in which I consider myself very knowledgeable.

    For example, if I was talking to you about my major and you started telling me how little I knew and how much of a fool I am for thinking that etc, I'd be very offended. If you said the same thing in regards to something that I just read ten minutes ago, I won't care much.

    When people are just rude to me, I don't get my feelings hurt. The best way to describe my thoughts about someone just being outright rude to me is a lack of care. I can be friends with assholes and nice folks, doesn't matter to me. If you're an asshole, it just makes it that much more fun for me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    ...Banter in this thread is of course to be expected and no problem, just plz, indicate when you're serious and not, using an emoticon (I know, I know) or some other indication. I still have trouble seeing what's humor and what's furreal with NT's I don't know.
    Sigh. That ALWAYS drives me crazy, too.
    It's like "eggshells in reverse."

    People can say some pretty nasty things to me. I'm not actually bothered that much by some of them, if I think they have a supportable/logical argument for it or if I know what they say is true.

    Stupid ignorant people usually piss me off.
    - They misjudge you.
    - They don't make sense.
    - They aren't open to change (either out of choice or lack of brain).

    Maybe that's not really anger, it's just frustration. When do I get REALLY angry? When they use their stupid ignorant ideas to actively interfere in someone else's life and make it hell.

    Now they're imposing on others (violating their autonomy), and there's nothing you can do to convince them to back out, except by aggressively facing off with them.

    I'm usually very understanding of people when they disagree with me, if they have a valid line of argument (i.e., if I can put myself in their shoes, and the conclusion is drawn rationally from the evidence), even if it's to my detriment.

    I also can be hurt if I feel like I've had good intentions towards someone and sacrificed a lot for their sake, and they either vilify my character or abandon me when the going gets hard. I will never make a demand that someone invest in me... but it hurts inside a great deal when I've made the investment and I realize they have not.

    Quote Originally Posted by ThatsWhatHeSaid View Post
    Heh. "No, I'm mad because you're a fucking asshole" would be a good response.
    Thank you -- I was looking for a line like that just yesterday! ("Yes, I'm neurotic and miserable right now, not because I'm doing the wrong thing with my life, but because I'm having to deal with judgmental shitheads like you.")

    Uh... Merry Christmas, everyone?
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    Gosh

    I think I'm a-typical because lots of things hurt my feelings. Criticisim, insensitivity, assuming I'll take other peoples BS. Someone hurt my feelings about 10 days ago because they totally invalidated my exisitance.

    Lis

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    Quote Originally Posted by tinkerbell View Post
    Someone hurt my feelings about 10 days ago because they totally invalidated my exisitance.
    *frown*

    Did someone hear something?
    "Hey Capa -- We're only stardust." ~ "Sunshine"

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