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[NT] Do NTs feel misunderstood?

Kasper

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so/sx
No but I don't really seek to be understood.
 

Blackmail!

Gotta catch you all!
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self explanatory. yes or no.

There's too many kind of NTs to give you a clear answer.

But I don't feel especially misunderstood... or rather... only by people with a Dom-Fe (ENFJs for instance), because they are invasive about how things must be, according to them.
I have the same trouble with deeply religious people, eager to make some proselytism around them.

So the only one who really doesn't understand me is the one supposed to be a natural empath. What a paradox, isn't it?
 
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nozflubber

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I feel extremely misunderstood and "Hunchback of Notre Dam-esque" but this is more likely due to eccentricity and lifelong ADHD-I
 

GargoylesLegacy

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Yes, sometimes. Tho, not here. People here understand me. =)
 

SUPER

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Yes. I dont care what others think of me. But it is frustrating at times.
 

FDG

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Not generally, with the only exception being the moments in which I launch myself in some highly speculative hypothesis. To be honest, it's kind of better that most of the time people don't understand me in these cases...
 

JocktheMotie

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We generally probably are, however anyone who doesn't understand us we think are idiots anyways so who really cares what they think.
 

Eldanen

Arcesso pulli gingerios!
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Not generally, with the only exception being the moments in which I launch myself in some highly speculative hypothesis. To be honest, it's kind of better that most of the time people don't understand me in these cases...

Like what? :D
 

Xander

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Yup. And I've no idea what's so difficult.
 

Ferrus

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Not so much misunderstood as spurned for who I am.
 
G

garbage

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Nope, I'm usually too straightforward to be misunderstood. Failing that, I also try to communicate with people in a way that they can understand me.. that used to be a conscious process, but it's more and more subconscious.

Sometimes, Feelers might think that I'm slightly angry when I'm direct. But that's cleared up pretty quickly, especially if they already know me.

When I feel the least understood is when I get scatterbrained if I get excited or talk too fast, getting lost in my own train of thought. That's when I get looks of confusion. I know that's my cue to slow down so that I can help others understand me.
 

sonata

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Sometimes, but I don't lie awake at night wishing everyone understood me.
 

miss fortune

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Well, I get described frequently as "just a bit off" by people, which could be either refering to my personality type or just me in general ;)

This doesn't particularly bother me though, since I'm generally likable enough to forgive for the times when I say/do something incredibly stupid or ponder something that nobody cares about for a good while.

I think that EVERYONE feels misunderstood frequently enough, no matter what their type is, so it wouldn't be unique to just NTs :)
 

ceecee

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I feel like I don't fit into a stereotypical female role much of the time but that's not the same as being misunderstood. I don't care about that anyway.
 
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