Can't you guys just disconnect those things ? (and chill by having a coke and a smoke)
ps: my bad about the envy, jealousy confusion. I'm not totally illiterate but anyway it wasnt like I did have a precise idea of a particular feeling, more like a general enjoy\jealousy\gruge vibe.
Last time i felt something similar was over 4 years ago in one of those 'particular situations', and I did mature alot in the ways of the buddha since then so I doubt it's likely to happen again.