[ENTP] ENTP - Alone and Quiet Extravert?

[Lady_X]

damn!! so much similarities between enfp and entp! that's a trip my sister and i can be that way too!

 

[Samvega]

How well do the two seem to get along dating wise? Not until this last year did I ever even entertain dating any E, I never would have shared the attention and had a habit of thinking about what I was about to say next too much. Both of those are pretty much gone now however and I have given it some thought. Any of you ever have any luck dating other Es?

 

[Synarch]

How well do the two seem to get along dating wise? Not until this last year did I ever even entertain dating any E, I never would have shared the attention and had a habit of thinking about what I was about to say next too much. Both of those are pretty much gone now however and I have given it some thought. Any of you ever have any luck dating other Es?

I had a good time with my ENFP. It sounds shitty to say this, but honestly if I had been more attracted to her, it would have lasted longer. That being said, she was tons of fun and could be counted on to make things happen.

 

[Lady_X]

i think a really really long time ago i dated an extravert...we dated for 3 years and got a long really well...he was kinda possessive though and i couldn't stand that.

 

[Snowey1210]

I have worked hard at avoiding the shock and aww meetings but I still sorta feel like I would rather be hated for who I am than loved for who I'm not.

Yeah, I'm a classic for the "shock and awe" type meetings. I have tendency to be a little bit of an attention seeker, lol. I guess it goes along with that old ENTP notion of viewing the world as "an audience, good, bad, or potential". We almost perform in a way... It's not a conscious decision but instead just how we relate to others.

I've try to "mellow" out this facet of my personality over the past year, and it's paid dividends. I don't see it as compromising my personality, but instead fine tuning it in such a way as to maximise positive outcomes. There is good balance that I think can met by employing just a bit more restraint (it is extremely difficult! lol) at times.

 

[Kora]

Great, now I'm doubting my I again.

 

[entropie]

I gladly refer to this thread without meaning:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nt-personal-threads/11804-loneliness.html

 

[EcK]

I gladly refer to this thread without meaning:

http://www.typologycentral.com/forums/nt-personal-threads/11804-loneliness.html

: DD