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    Quote Originally Posted by Wild horses View Post
    you have seen him less than 10 times and he has mentioned marriage stuff... WOW now that is scary no wonder your head is in a mess... The guy is an intoxicating drug and when you are around such it is hard to see things clearly and bad decisions can be made...
    Missed this post, but, I totally agree!!!

    Something doesn't add up.

    Quote Originally Posted by Edgar View Post
    I don't like the idea of being around a person who is "like an intoxicating drug.".
    Nor do I, when I feel intoxicated by one's presence, I lose self control, as well as my faculties of perception.

    I like people who make me feel grounded, for there is a richness and depth to a grounded kind of love as opposed to the chaotic, frenetic mess that ensues from a passionate ethereal, love conquers all, defying the laws of nature with a side of intergalactic rainbows and perpetual puppies mentality.

    I want something real and honest.

    Quote Originally Posted by Edgar View Post
    Yeah I agree with you on that one. He needs to man up and stop being such a bitch. I can empathize with an INTJ being careful about his feelings of affection, but 10 years is just plain unreasonable.
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    I just wanted to add something. One time, I decided to bring up a possible situation with a guy I met. I figured we really have no ties with each other. We aren't exclusive so, I brought it up to him & he claimed I was trying to make him jealous. I mean I can't win.
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    Have you guys been, er, intimate?
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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post
    Have you guys been, er, intimate?
    Yes. Does that change anything? He really confuses me. The part that sounds weird is that he has told me he casually hooks up with girls then cuts them off. He even pointed out that he still calls me & that's a big deal for him. The more I talk about it, the more lost I feel. I never been in a situation like this....EVER. Help!
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    "He's just not that into you."

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    Quote Originally Posted by soleil View Post
    Yes. Does that change anything? He really confuses me. The part that sounds weird is that he has told me he casually hooks up with girls then cuts them off. He even pointed out that he still calls me & that's a big deal for him. The more I talk about it, the more lost I feel. I never been in a situation like this....EVER. Help!
    Me no likey!!!

    " The part that sounds weird is that he has told me he casually hooks up with girls then cuts them off. He even pointed out that he still calls me & that's a big deal for him"

    :rolli:

    Shall we bake him a dozen cookies, and scratch him behind his ears!?!?!?

    It honestly seems like homie's got issues, for real.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Flak View Post
    "He's just not that into you."
    I guess so.
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    Sex. The physical act of love. Coitus. Do you like it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainChick View Post


    Me no likey!!!



    " The part that sounds weird is that he has told me he casually hooks up with girls then cuts them off. He even pointed out that he still calls me & that's a big deal for him"

    :rolli:

    Shall we bake him a dozen cookies, and scratch him behind his ears!?!?!?

    It honestly seems like homie's got issues, for real.
    I know. It's just such a odd situation to be in. He's so paranoid. He's much more touchy feely than I have ever been, EVER. He's so weird. He calls & tells me he thought of me out of no where when he out in FL & asked me if it was possible if we thought of each other at the same time. He's going there, CC. You know?
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    Quote Originally Posted by soleil View Post
    I just want to know where it's going. Is it serious or not. Remember, I never brought up anything. It was his doing.
    So why don't you just ask him?

    It seems like you're taking a real passive role in this relationship and waiting for his next move. And if there's anything I've learned from my INTJ friend, they make real long and complicated plans, so it'll be a loooong time before you know what the heck he's thinking.

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