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    Tell me, what have been your interactions with INFJs? Were they cordial? Strange? Amazing? Sticky?

    Tell me your story...


    EDIT: Crap... I'm reading other threads, and it answers my questions. So... tell if you want. :/
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    Weird. The INFJ seemed very interested in the nature of me and my INTP roommate. He also laughed a lot around us.

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    I had an amazing friendship with an INFJ.
    He always was there for me even though I was much weirder and depressed-looking at the time. For some reason he frequently asked me if I was mad at him.
    He could take my sense of humor and all aspects of my personality.
    At times he was just as socially awkward as I am.
    Sometimes I felt like he was my cheerleader, and always involved me in things, even with his group of friends who I didn't know personally. I was always accepted.
    He bought me stuffed animals for presents. One was a penguin with a bow-tie, the other was some weird anime cat with a huge head (it doesn't stand up so well).
    Man, I miss him.
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    I have an INFJ friend I usually get along really well with since she's a nonconformist and I don't care about social rules. The times we don't get along well pass quickly. Last night the usual group of people were at my brothers' house, mostly the girls dancing, and the two of us did a Swing adaptation, with her dipping me occasionally (a bit difficult since I'm taller), and we just had a blast.

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    I LOVE INFJs, I haven't met one I haven't liked.. You can normally find them attached to an ENFP or INTJ as well as they all seem to do well together. Sadly I know of a few INFJ/INTJ couples and I think it's a shame because while I can see their motivations for being together I think both types really thrive and do best with an ENxP...

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    Quote Originally Posted by TucsonENTP View Post
    I LOVE INFJs, I haven't met one I haven't liked.. You can normally find them attached to an ENFP or INTJ as well as they all seem to do well together. Sadly I know of a few INFJ/INTJ couples and I think it's a shame because while I can see their motivations for being together I think both types really thrive and do best with an ENxP...
    It's a Ni dom thing.

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    I have yet to meet one that I admire. Sometimes they are weird, illogical and too stubborn about their beliefs. And they sacrifice themselves way too much for things that are not good for them.

    However, they have good sides too.
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    Default INFJ interactions

    well, I had one female INFJ that was a counselor...many years ago. She never spoke much but seemed quite deep but not connected to anyone that I saw. not really much interaction at all.

    I dated an INFJ male a long time ago. He was rather quiet, intensely felt and was a loner. He was very drawn to me. He was easily afraid and that caused some clinginess, but I never felt like I really knew his inner world. He was kind to me, but didn't reveal a lot of who he was. I have good memories, but somehow even though it felt like there was a lot more to him, I never really was sure of it. The question.."Are you deep or not?" Its seems so hard to allow anyone in.

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    I tend to get along fairly well with INFJs and INFPs (my sister is very much an INFP) as long as they aren't too clingy or want physical attention (like hugs or any of that). One of my INFJ friends is a science student (like I am) and I really enjoy talking with her because we're enough alike that we understand each other, but different enough so that there can be two different perspectives on the same topic.
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    One of my very best friends is an INFJ. For a time, we had a romantic interest in one another, but I put an end to it after not really feeling it anymore.

    I love that she is loyal to a fault. Very insightful. Has beliefs and sticks to them. I can have an intelligent conversation with her about people and the world. Caring.

    I hate that she has a terrible temper. That when she loses the temper she can get very personal, very quickly. And I also despise that she can be manipulative with emotions. She brags about manipulating people sometimes, and that really annoys me. There has not been too many instances in which she manipulated me, as I can usually figure her out, but she is better at it than 99% of people.

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