Edit: I'm linking this page to a much larger discussion on mindmates here.
If you are unaware of this theory, it may be a better starting point than this OP.
As some of you may know, the concept of having a mindmate for an NT is very real. While NFs tend to lean toward soulmates, SPs lean toward playmates, SJs go for helpmates, NTs like their mindmates.
For those of you that have had a mindmate (in real life or long distance) how far have or would you be willing to go? Given that your attraction lies within the gender that they are (i.e. you're not a hetero female with another female mm), what have you thought about doing or have done to be with a mm?
If you or the other person has been in a serious relationship or marriage, would you end it?
Would you travel far distances or move?
Are there things you'd be willing to compromise on? If so, what are they?
Have you ever had a mindmate long distance only to find the connection diminish in person upon meeting?
And finally, if circumstances were hard to overcome, how long did you wait to see if it could be duplicated with someone else? Or do you just accept the way things are and let it go?
I'm just basically curious to what extremes such a connection has taken you, be it in thought or action.