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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    NTs do that?!

    Analysis paralysis, though I would expect an SP to say that.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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    Oh goodness I'm SAD, very far indeed. Once I find a person who touches my mind I rarely ever let them go fully.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    You don't have to see/feel God's existence to understand the concept of God though.
    True, but concept and existence are two different beasts, I can understand pretty much any concept.

    People are just being lazy/ineffective at explaining this concept.
    I agree, and that has been my frustration with the whole thing, every time I think I get it, someone explains it in a way that makes me go "what? But I thought..."
    *clinging to my face like a starfish of love* ....... PinkPiranha

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    Seriously, just start here. You only have to read the first few posts to get the concept. If you don't, well... then I dunno.
    Pain is just weakness leaving the body.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Delilah View Post
    I agree, and that has been my frustration with the whole thing, every time I think I get it, someone explains it in a way that makes me go "what? But I thought..."
    LOL. It's too feelerish for an NT to explain it effectively. Too NTish for a Feeler to understand it properly.

    Maybe you can be mine, Del, we'll figure it out together .
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chemgrl82 View Post
    Seriously, just start here. You only have to read the first few posts to get the concept. If you don't, well... then I dunno.
    Read it several times, still don't really get it.
    *clinging to my face like a starfish of love* ....... PinkPiranha

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    Regarding the concept/definition of a mindmate: you'll know it when it hits you. There's not always a good way to generalize or provide a synopsis of something that's so very personal on a forum. It will vary from person to person in the way it was defined, but if it happens, you'll know because it will seriously fuck with your mind.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chemgrl82 View Post
    Seriously, just start here. You only have to read the first few posts to get the concept. If you don't, well... then I dunno.
    In the first sentence she says it "throughoutly fucks up your mind".

    I stopped reading after that.
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    Gosh, the world looks so small from up here on my high horse of menstruation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bluemonday View Post
    Maybe you can be mine, Del, we'll figure it out together .
    SCORE! Finally!

    Quote Originally Posted by Chemgrl82 View Post
    Regarding the concept/definition of a mindmate: you'll know it when it hits you. There's not always a good way to generalize or provide a synopsis of something that's so very personal on a forum. It will vary from person to person in the way it was defined, but if it happens, you'll know because it will seriously fuck with your mind.
    I have heard that, I still don't see the difference between that, and being in love then?
    *clinging to my face like a starfish of love* ....... PinkPiranha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chemgrl82 View Post
    Seriously, just start here. You only have to read the first few posts to get the concept. If you don't, well... then I dunno.
    The term "mindmates" is used in Kiersey's Please Understand Me II. IIRC, it's like the conception of how each type best relates in a relationship and expresses LOVE.

    He also uses:

    * Artisan Playmate
    * Idealist Soulmate
    * Guardian Helpmate

    The concept of the Mindmate may just be the NT version of romance.
    "Create like a god, command like a king, work like a slave."

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