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    Default How can I tell if an ENFP is into me?

    I'm very attracted to an ENFP female, and I'm wondering firstly if she realises this and secondly if so, is she flirting with me? How perceptive are ENFPs at picking up signs of attraction from others, and typically how do you flirt?

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    If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet.

    I think that's the same with most ENFP's.

    I'm pretty oblivious to signs of attraction from men, but I wasn't allowed to be oblivious to the ENFP.

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    i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out.
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    I think ENFP females are pretty aware if someone is into them. I am.

    BUt yeah if she's into you, you will def know it.

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    You would have to smack me in the face and say I am into you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mlittrell View Post
    i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out.
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    For being so great at reading people, I have a lot of trouble judging how into me somebody is. I can know that they like me a lot, but I can't decipher if its romance or not unless its blatantly obvious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BerberElla View Post
    If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet.

    I think that's the same with most ENFP's.
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    When I am in pursuit I will let it be known. Charming words and kind gestures. Even more so than usual. I will go out of my way for the catch. I usually get what I am after

    Also, I am definitely aware when someone is interested in me 100%.
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    Yeah, pretty much all of the above. No idea when someone is into me, in thaaaat way.

    And "is she flirting with me?" that one is a toughie. I've been told that I flirt with everyone. I know that I do tend to withdraw when I like someone, that's my way of flirting I guess
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    She has told me she likes me but I'm not sure how to interpret that, I think it was meant more in a respectful way. I haven't been overt in flirting with her at all: I've just shown interest in her occasionally, tried to be funny (she laughs at my jokes). I have noticed that when I did imply she was quite clever she seemed to be really pleased (I was a little suprised at her response and how excited she became).

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    Just do it, ask her for a cup of joe or a bagel. Worst case scenario is a flaky no.

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