Hi everyone I'm new to the boards. Sorry I haven't introduced myself.
I was wondering if anyone could tell me the benefits of a INFj/ENFP relationship vs. an INFj/ENTP relationship. According to the personality page, these two are the ideal matches for the INFj. I always had this sense that I was fairly good at reading other people below the surface but often people would underestimate me as the shy, simple, and sweet girl. I kind of like the description of the infj as the "quietly intense person". Anyways, I met this guy who had the oddest effect on me. I guard and hide my feelings so well. But everytime I come into contact with him, I feel like he can see right through me. Its really distrubing. I feel like I'm naked, like being emotionally exposed. We always keep our conversations very superficial but its like this underline energy or vibe we both get. I like to be very careful as an infj that I am not projecting my own emotions on to other people. In addition, I'm very careful about letting people into my inner world. Usually this person is the wild child and super hyper person of every event. Yet, when we have a light conversation he gets very nervous, quiet, and focused like he trying to pick me apart. I finally figured out he is an ENFp (I swear he could be the poster-child). Anyways, I like to have a little information before I open up to him. As we all know ENFP guys are not typical caveman types. Do you find that the the shared NF in a relationship can be overwhelming? Is NT better? Many people brag about the INTJ/ENFP relationship and the INFj/ENTP but to find any perspective on ENFp/INFj is a little difficult? Can you help? I am seventeen and the guy in question is eighteen.