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    What seduces me is when a pretty woman approaches me and makes clear her intentions. This thread would be more interesting if INFJs disregarded the long view for a moment. Feel the rapture!
    "For a man who wants to make a profession of good in all regards must come to ruin among so many who are not good. Hence it is necessary to a prince, if he wants to maintain himself, to learn to be able not to be good, and to use this and not use it according to necessity."
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    This is really not difficult.

    Just pretend you care.
    Anger is also a feeling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tiny Army View Post
    This is really not difficult.

    Just pretend you care.
    So that's what I'm doin wrong It's hard to just keep pretending that you care though isn't it?

    [add]: (just realized the topic) it's their feminine charm! And they are always stylish too. And the rarity, nobody would pay money for fuel if it rained from the sky...
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    This is why you leave when they start noticing you don't.
    Anger is also a feeling.

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    This is how to seduce AS an INFJ. Meaning if you are an INFJ, how would you go about seducing others. Not how to seduce an INFJ (in which case the answer is that you can't).
    ~Life in a cappella~

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Not how to seduce an INFJ (in which case the answer is that you can't).
    My experience too. If someone tries to seduce me (in the sense that he is only interested in sex) he will get doorslammed so quickly he doesn't even know what's happening to him (and I will giggle to myself underneath my cold exterior). Most guys don't even try, if he is only interested in a fling it's far too much effort.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lightyear View Post
    My experience too. If someone tries to seduce me (in the sense that he is only interested in sex) he will get doorslammed so quickly he doesn't even know what's happening to him (and I will giggle to myself underneath my cold exterior). Most guys don't even try, if he is only interested in a fling it's far too much effort.
    Romance over sexiness yeah? so then INFJs being seductive would be a fallacy. I'm thinking that maybe INFJs don't need to be seductive, they just naturally draw people in towards them.
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    Find a mature ESTJ. Also, don't project what you feel or want to beleive onto another person. And remember: the ESTJ can take care of you, but you have to prove yourself to the.

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    Na, you guys can be seduced, it just takes time and some passionate discussions on something non-sexual.
    Dreams are best served manifest and tangible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by runvardh View Post
    Na, you guys can be seduced, it just takes time and some passionate discussions on something non-sexual.
    We're going to have to be clear on how we are defining seduce. INFJs generally can not be seduced as in:

    1. To lead away from duty, accepted principles, or proper conduct.
    2. To induce to engage in sex.

    They can, however, be won over by earnest interest in long-term commitments
    ~Life in a cappella~

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