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    Senior Member niffer's Avatar
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    Heh, I'm talking to a gay INFJ friend of mine right now actually. He obsesses over little details about the behaviour of guys he's into as well. He finds that situations improve for him when he listens to me after I tell him to calm the fuck down, stop obsessing, and simply step back and allow the person more time to prove himself to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderlight View Post
    THANK YOU Batumi that helps a lot
    Be nice to yourself.

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    oh, the joys of over analyzing (and that was sarcasm)

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    To the OP, I can be like that too irl, (really lock into someone quickly when they feel right and we're dating). I've learned to take a step back and it helps. For one thing you don't make yourself crazy by over-analyzing the other person. For another, it allows you to come across to them as interested but calm. I think of it as letting the other person, whom I care about, open up at their own pace. Helps you protect your own heart too ime. (and I agree, him holding your hand is very cute!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thunderlight View Post
    oh, the joys of over analyzing (and that was sarcasm)
    I know. I have often thought that if in relationships that I really want to work, so much, if only I could behave as I did in the ones that were kind of MEH to me.
    It just sucks that the ones I feel so strongly about are the ones I tend to
    almost kill off by trying too hard. Hope that makes sense.

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    oh it does hahaha. it makes too much sense.

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