Going apeshit on someone is never a good idea cause it's really all projection.
Why else would you need to go berserk other than insecruity? Whenever people talk shit about other people it always reflects on them way more than the person they're talking about. I was thinking about this today, I kind of think anything you say, even when talking about other people, speaks only for yourself. Other people are who they are and nothing you say or think about them can change what they really are. You probably don't even know that person well enough to understand them, so you're outlashing is probably completely unfounded and wrong anyway. They're just projecting their own suck onto you. And everyone sucks a little bit, right?I can't even recall all of the arguments/fights I have gotten into where the other person started going berserk because of their *own* issues.
How many times have people said things about you that really don't describe you at all? For me, a ton of times, but none of those change who I am, so I never feel the need to unleash at someone. I used to go fucking apeshit at people, I was a really angry kid, but I just don't care any more, and boy is it rewarding.