When sadness occurs, how do you prefer to be comforted? Do you need solitude? Do you want to discuss the cause?
I prefer to be left alone in mild upsets, but in a big upset, friends and family help soooo much. An INFP friend of mine, when mildly upset, doesn't mind my quirky humor to bring her out of it, but in extremities needs to be alone, or be serious, about the issue.