I'm very attracted to an ENFP female, and I'm wondering firstly if she realises this and secondly if so, is she flirting with me? How perceptive are ENFPs at picking up signs of attraction from others, and typically how do you flirt?
10-10-2008, 11:32 AM #1
How can I tell if an ENFP is into me?
10-10-2008, 11:37 AM #2
If an ENFP is into you you can't mistake it, I don't know any type who hunts their prey aswell as the ENFP. What they want they get, I've never been as pursued as when an ENFP fancied me, nor as swept off my feet.
I think that's the same with most ENFP's.
I'm pretty oblivious to signs of attraction from men, but I wasn't allowed to be oblivious to the ENFP.
Ah what fun that was lol.
10-10-2008, 11:40 AM #3
i pretty much never realize it when people are into me lol. but, like stated above, if an ENFP is into someone, watch out."Honest differences are often a healthy sign of progress. "
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10-10-2008, 11:54 AM #4
I think ENFP females are pretty aware if someone is into them. I am.
BUt yeah if she's into you, you will def know it.
10-10-2008, 12:59 PM #5
You would have to smack me in the face and say I am into you.
10-10-2008, 01:03 PM #6
10-10-2008, 01:07 PM #7You can't always do it right, you can always do what's left.
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10-10-2008, 01:09 PM #8
Yeah, pretty much all of the above. No idea when someone is into me, in thaaaat way.
And "is she flirting with me?" that one is a toughie. I've been told that I flirt with everyone. I know that I do tend to withdraw when I like someone, that's my way of flirting I guess"My mom told me there was a weirdo on every bus, but I never could find him." Emo Phillips
10-10-2008, 01:25 PM #9
She has told me she likes me but I'm not sure how to interpret that, I think it was meant more in a respectful way. I haven't been overt in flirting with her at all: I've just shown interest in her occasionally, tried to be funny (she laughs at my jokes). I have noticed that when I did imply she was quite clever she seemed to be really pleased (I was a little suprised at her response and how excited she became).
10-10-2008, 01:30 PM #10
Just do it, ask her for a cup of joe or a bagel. Worst case scenario is a flaky no.
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