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    Default What Makes You Deeply HAPPY And/Or What do you NEED to be HAPPY?

    I think a lot of people feel DEPRESSED because they don't live their truth, are trying too hard to fit in, or they don't have time to do what makes them truly happy.
    So What Makes you deeply happy and/or what do you need to be happy?

    I'm talking about the simple and the complex;
    what's politically correct or what's not
    What's socially acceptable or not (because no matter how old we get, I think we all feel peer pressure to a certain
    degree)
    Not what "sounds" good but what really makes you Feel Joy! (Maybe you like chicken salad with chocolate chips on it heck I dunno--lol)
    (my answer following)
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    --Sitting in silence (no outside noise)
    --Peering out of a window
    --Cupcakes, cookies, candy, brownies, pies, cakes (watching them being baked too)
    --God surprises (a double rainbow in the sky, a redbird flying across my car windshield, doves on my windowsill, an
    ice-cream truck rolling by
    --Feeling good physically
    --A Great sale
    --Time To Rejuvenate and Do what I want with my OWN time (This weekend I have 5 events so who do I turn down, when do I get to rest)
    (Too many invites, too many parties, too many get togethers, someone's got a great idea they want to execute and I'm expected to participate), I've probably been part of 10 once a monther clubs---a couple I've loved but the rest? Too much! We live in an era of socializing on steroids and it NEVER stops--even when you're 85! these days. Whatever happened to sitting at home watching tv? I miss that.
    --A positive peaceful workplace (where everyone is respectful and easy to get along with)
    --Kindness (doing something unexpected for someone else)
    --Personal wins (even tiny ones can lift the spirit)
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    Someone special to me, a warm night, a field, a blanket, and the sky. Simple.
    To give real service you must add something which cannot be bought or measured with money, and that is sincerity and integrity. Douglas Adams

    Mornings are for coffee and contemplation. Jim Hopper

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    My family, a dark night with lots of stars, conspiracy theories, my father's Lebanese cooking, praying, Lord of the Rings, kisses.
    "The world is indeed full of peril, and in it there are many dark places; but still there is much that is fair, and though in all lands love is now mingled with grief, it grows perhaps the greater." --J.R.R. Tolkien

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    Music.
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    - having a good balance of work time and leisure time. (Too much free time and I become lazy, bored and unproductive, too much work and I get overstressed, burned out, and end up slacking as a coping mechanism so I don't get much done anyway.)
    - living in and visiting big cities with lots of hustle & bustle, which I find energizing
    - sunsets
    - crossing bridges over rivers
    - taking long walks while listening to music (preferably including a trip over a bridge and views of a sunset)
    - getting good grades at school
    - doing kind things for people, especially people I love

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    watching my football team win and sex.
    "If the truth shall kill them, let them die"

    468: The Truth Teller [4w5 - 6w5 - 8w7].
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    I like the phrase "God surprises" like a rainbow...that is so great.

    Nature
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    pizza
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    Helping someone of great need.

    Being an inspiration to others.
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