[INFJ] What's Your Least Compatible Type? (Open to all)

[Luminous]

INxJ. I don't understand how anyone could be attracted to them to be honest.

That's me with Ti dominants.

I feel the need to explain. tongue: light-heartedly, as I'm not trying to change your minds)

INxJ: Can be magnetic (right, [MENTION=32548]magnetica[/MENTION]? )
If they are mature, can have extreme depth of thought, vision, and strength.

Ti-dom (INTPs specifically here, as I'm well acquainted with them): Can be intelligent, clever, witty, funny, responsible, honest, interesting. One I know, if I ask him something, about 98% of the time, he knows the answer.

As for myself, I think enneagram probably plays a larger role in friction. And then, it's when needless judging is directed at me.

 

[Lady Lazarus]

I feel the need to explain. tongue: light-heartedly, as I'm not trying to change your minds)

INxJ: Can be magnetic (right, [MENTION=32548]magnetica[/MENTION]? )
If they are mature, can have extreme depth of thought, vision, and strength.

Ti-dom (INTPs specifically here, as I'm well acquainted with them): Can be intelligent, clever, witty, funny, responsible, honest, interesting. One I know, if I ask him something, about 98% of the time, he knows the answer.

As for myself, I think enneagram probably plays a larger role in friction. And then, it's when needless judging is directed at me.

It was more a figure of speech to emphasize my own feelings than expressing genuine bewilderment, haha. I have never met an INxJ I was compatible with but I'm certain there are others who are compatible with them. As so it goes.

I definitely prefer Fi doms both romantically and platonically. Strangely, people seem to misguidedly believe I am one of those. I think I will blame some of it on aspirational merging. I used to like ENFP's in my younger years, but have since matured toward appreciating others' introversion.

 

[Population: 1]

I feel the need to explain. tongue: light-heartedly, as I'm not trying to change your minds)

INxJ: Can be magnetic (right, [MENTION=32548]magnetica[/MENTION]? )
If they are mature, can have extreme depth of thought, vision, and strength.

Ti-dom (INTPs specifically here, as I'm well acquainted with them): Can be intelligent, clever, witty, funny, responsible, honest, interesting. One I know, if I ask him something, about 98% of the time, he knows the answer.

As for myself, I think enneagram probably plays a larger role in friction. And then, it's when needless judging is directed at me.

My girlfriend is most likely an INTJ and what she brings to the table is a clarity of thought and a level of organization I simply don’t possess. She is very witty and has this closely guarded emotional vulnerability that I can pick up on under the calm serious exterior and interpret. We complement each other nicely. There have been misunderstandings but that’s to be expected. Just like any personality type they’re not for everyone and the combination of NF and NT isn’t always workable.

 

[Coriolis]

INxJ. I don't understand how anyone could be attracted to them to be honest.

Well, many of us are married or otherwise in long-term relationships, so obviously some folks are. I can definitely see how there is often a lack of appeal, but most of us aren't interested in assembling a harem, so finding just one Mr/Ms Right can be enough.

 

[Peter Deadpan]

Myself.

 

[AStrange~Nostalgia]

It would be difficult for me to elaborate on. As it goes with my own strict mindset on self-preservation, but not selfish self preservation if that makes sense. Altruism has its place in the world, don't get me wrong. But I believe in everything in moderation, and it is one of those things.

Some people are so bent on helping everyone else, they trample on the people around them that also need their help. They dont realize they can make much more of a difference at home, and only when home is acceptable should they try helping those outside. Because resources are limited. And due to those limitations, you cannot help everyone. I hear them say they will help everyone, but anyone who knows that there are billions of people who need help, and only a few million that can provide it. Will quickly realize that it is resource impossible. In their attempts to help, they open themselves up to righteous sacrafice, suicidal altruism. Without realizing that them doing so, takes others down with them. It weakens the very ability to give help to begin with. Eventually, there will be no one else to give help. Because they have compromised the system that has created the help to begin with. They will have given everything, and have gotten nothing. They forget that its okay to be a little selfish, that its okay to say no. They will destroy themselves, and no one will even remember their sacrifice. In fact, people wouldnt care. Some will even despise your help. I ask them, is it really worth it?

I find that to be sad.

Every word you said is true . And I'm thankful that you post it on INFJ thread, because they get hurt the most .they have good poeple skills but they don't use it well , which drives me to madness sometimes. They act selfless and expect people to be angels , wich they are not, and see things coming but ignoring them and like you said they go through life without the right knowledge.

I can see them hurting , being sensitive poeple , they don't protect themselves enough. As if they don't see the world around them.

And yes I understand that approach and living it , self care but not selfish.

 

[Yara the Corpse]

ESTJs... complicates everything in all the wrong ways.

 

[Eftelya]

Sadly ESTJs, ISTJs, and unhealthy female xNTJs (because my healthy ENTJ aunt is one of the most precious people, and I love her dearly).
Haven't met many male xNTJs apart from my father yet (unhealthy), but the few I've encountered, I actually got along with.
I'm guessing the enneagram type plays a role as well.



Most compatible would be ENFJ, ENFP, ESFP, ISFJ, and ISFP?
Feelers, basically.

 

[Earl Grey]

ESXJ, ESTP.

 

[1487610420]

clingy emo succubus

 

[Pionart]

I can't say from experience because most of my socialising has been with a narrow range of types.

(ok, maybe not that narrow, but whatever my least compatible type is, I probably just don't talk to them)

 

[Norexan]

Conflict personality pair i.e. Least compatible.

INTJ and ESFJ
ENTJ and ISFJ
INTP and ESFP
ENTP and ISFP
INFJ and ESTJ
INFP and ESTP
ENFJ and ISTJ
ENFP and ISTP

 

[Norexan]

Shallow, deceptive, materialistic, and arrogant women. Otherwise I've never worried about their type.

INFP and ESTP

 

[Norexan]

clingy emo succubus

INTP and ESFP

 

[1487610420]

Conflict personality pair i.e. Least compatible.

INTJ and ESFJ
ENTJ and ISFJ
INTP and ESFP
ENTP and ISFP
INFJ and ESTJ
INFP and ESTP
ENFJ and ISTJ
ENFP and ISTP

 

[Norexan]

It is according to functions.

For example:

If you have ter Si you will feel disgust about impact of Se function.
If you have inf Fe you don't even know definition of Fi!

So imagine impact of Se-Fi.

You are on the line of impact of Se person who does what he/she does because of something you don't understand. Brain is melting instantly.

 

[Jaguar]

"It's always been done that way" people.

Edit: Oh, shit. I just realized this is an INFJ thread. lol.

 

[Norexan]

Demonstration for ENTJ

Te with Si -> we acknowledge our sense for structure
Fe with Si -> looping start good -> go bad -> again good

Si with Te -> extreme good discussion most of time
Si with Fe -> Just don't go deeper unless you have someone who can guarantee for you that you are good person! Fight and disgusting of each other are real!

 

[Jaguar]

Si with Te -> extreme good discussion most of time

So you like driving your car backwards? Good for you.

 

[Norexan]

So you like driving your car backwards? Good for you.

Unless we are talking about projects and some new idea we are grate because we are talking same language lol.
But again dom Si have extremely good memory, they remember everything so I have an issues when Si is leading with Fe but with LOGICAL things I don't have at all.
They are grate base of knowledge, hard-working, logical, reasonable and loyal people. Everything what ENTJ appreciate...