I feel this in a way also....I've dated a few NTs and I'm too sensitive for them. I've even dated religious/spiritual ones, and they were still lacking the compassion and caring I want in someone. Their stubborn black & white view of others & the world was a big turn-off. They saw themselves as objective, and I saw them as having blinders on & not grasping the full picture.
I'd like another NF, but I'm open to different types still. I mean, I'm not going to be closed off to an individual simply because I perceive them as an "incompatible" type.