karenk
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I I had edited this earlier, and stupid internet ate my post. Anyway, I don't get long term stalker types like your friend, but I get a lot of creeps on public transportation telling me that I should smile more, and other bs like that. Also, on the rare occasions when I get hit on at a bar it's always the guy who wants to tell me all about his struggle with mental illness and past trauma.
My favorite experience so far was just last week when a guy followed me off the subway, onto the street, and into a drugstore all the while muttering obscenities and other lewd comments under his breath just loud enough for me to hear. I actually ducked into the drugstore instead of walking straight home because I knew there would be a cop in there, and even still he followed me to the shampoo aisle. Creep.
I have so many experiences like this. One example: I was eating lunch in a park on my break and this guy came up and was saying obscene things. So I left and another guy followed me out and said he had a gun and was going to follow me to make sure the first guy left me alone. He walked a few paces behind me for several blocks. ha! Yea the second guy was no better than the first. I've had guys tell me their psychological problems upon meeting me. I mean one told me what happened in his therapy session. ugh! Seriously, why does this happen?