Ah, okay. I'm definitely like that. I'm a clutterbug but I always stare inside to make sure everything is in order.Maybe partly? But naw, the infj's judging is directed more internally, for internal organisation. And overall it seems more P-ish. Besides, I have that too.
My J is different from my mom's J (ISTJ), so it gets interesting, and ends up with that I should be the more lenient one.
I wonder how many times I've heard: "But your brother is fine/uneffected/completely happy with it." Sigh. But he's completely different from me. (Oh he gets his share of the nagging too.)
And for the begining part:
Yeah, TJ isnt concerned with how mentally perfect it is, but how well it fits the parameters of the situation.