I actually admire you guys a lot, and more Ts should too. After all, you have such great understanding of your emotions, and I tend to be clueless about mine. Plus, INFxs have a degree of control over their emotions (often) that blows my mind. And don't all Ts want control over their emotions?
The one INFP I know is very smart. She's quite an intellectual. Based on what I've read about INFPs, she isn't that "typical" either... probably because she wears her SJ suit every day (she's a high school Government teacher)...really, why can't an INFP be "smart"? we are introspective, sensitive to details, and we have the added ability to empathize (when we are focused externally enough not to be caught in our own emotions, of course!).