For an ENFP, I'm moderately in between E-F-P. I tend to keep my place organized in certain areas/messy in others (like my art space- it's constantly cluttered no matter how many times I organize it).
Most times, I'm pretty light-hearted, but I keep my skepticism to myself when it comes to certain things like what people say/do, which makes me question their integrity to the nth degree. I used to be a lot more unconditionally forgiving.. but with years of experience, I just can't for some people (I came to realize some people are just damaged goods- it's not my job to try and *cheer* them up in order to make a positive difference in their lives- some people are just inherently mal-intent due to nature or nurture? idk). I wish I can go back to being the same as I used to be.. Life happens.