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[Jungian Cognitive Functions] INJs and Extraverted Sensing

Martian Manifesto

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I started a previous thread on the INFJ & INTJ's dominant function: Ni

This thread is intended to explore the INJ's inferior function: Se

Let's start the discussion with something I am reading now. Don't want to make this too long so I will just give the main "manfestations" of an INJ "in the grip" of the inferior Se function. They are:

1) Obsessive focus on External Data

2) Overindulgence in Sensual Pleasures

3) Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outside World


All input welcome, serious and the not-so-serious :)

Enjoy and....attack!
 

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There are no INFJ haters out there? A whole thread on how we have a twisted relationship with our Se? Come on, I mean this is too perfect. Take at least one swipe. You'll feel better, I promise.
 

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Can you please quote it here, Heart? You need to login to read.

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From "Was that Really Me?" by Naomi L Quenk, pp. 198-202

Jung (1976a) incorporates the three qualities of inferior Extraverted Sensing (obsessive focus on external data, overindulgence in sensual pleasures, and an adversarial attitude toward the outer world) in the following comment:

What the introverted intuitive represses most of all is the sensation of the object, and this colours his whole unconscious. It gives rise to a compensatory extraverted sensation function of an archaic character. The unconscious personality can best be described as an extraverted sensation type of a rather low and primitive order. Instinctuality and intemperance are the hallmarks of this sensation, combined with an extraordinary dependence on sense-impressions. This compensates the rarefied air of the intuitive's conscious attitude. (p. 402)


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Obsessive Focus on External Data

Effective dominant Extraverted Sensing types are open to the widest variety of information from the environment--the more the better for them. Fully experiencing the outside world is their greatest pleasure. For an INTJ or INFJ in the grip of inferior Extraverted Sensing, data from the outside world can seem overwhelming. Facts and details in the world demand the attention of the Introverted Intuitive type in the grip, so he or she obsesses about them. This may be experienced by both INTJs and INFJs as a state of intensity and drivenness. Their attempts to control the details in their environment are often expressed in such activities as feverishly cleaning the house, moving furniture, and organizing records and other materials. They may show an adamant concern about minute details and an unrelenting effort to control everything in their immediate vicinity.

An INFJ described her obsessiveness and withdrawal from her usual interests this way: "I stew about what's going on. I can't sit still and am restless. I am mentally fatigued and find myself compulsively putting things in order and trying to control everything around me." An INTJ said that when he is in this state, he feels like a top spinning faster and faster. If he is working with tools and getting frustrated and angry, he has learned that it is best for him to stop or he will get hurt or break something. An INFJ described "obsessing about details." He gave as an example:

When I'm using power tools that can cause injury, I will spend an inordinate amount of energy making sure that I'm not going to inadvertently hurt myself when I turn the thing on. I will triple-check to make sure my fingers are out of the way, etc. Usually I take in the world more globally and have less concern about details until I need them.

"I'm more likely to have accidents," said an INTJ. "I'm robotic, forget things, say things backwards;' I'm obsessed with a thought and can't get it out of my mind. I try to control situations and people and engage in strange behavior, like checking on things," said an INTJ woman. And another INTJ woman said, "I can become obsessed by detail. I'm less able to function aqnd make decisions--sort of paralyzed."

An INFJ said, "I alphabetize my compact discs; or suddenly it's time to do tha thing i thought about doing two months ago. I drop everything and do it; or I fixate on smells and sounds." "I organize or clean. I feel pressured and can't think clearly," reported another INFJ. "I nitpick about things in the environment. i bombard people verbally and obsess out loud."

An INTJ recalled the following from his childhood and adolescence:

When my studies were not going too well I would start to develop detailed tables of data, or drawings to support technical/science answers. These were frequently in too great detail, taking a lot of time and usually out of all proportion to the task ad the length of the answers sought--or even irrelevant to the original questions.

Often the external input that becomes the object of obsession is something someone said or even failed to say. When the last client on an unusually busy day left without saying her usual "See you next week," an INTJ therapist became convinced she had made a mistake during the psychotherapy session. She spent many hours going over the content of the session. She felt the only reason the client had not terminated theraqpy that day was politeness, so as not to hurt the therapist's feelings.

A common focus, particularly for INTJ and INFJ women, can be an aspect of their physical appearance. They may become convinced that they have prominent skin blemishes, that others are noticing that they don't dress very well, or that they look fat. In combination with the "overindulgence" manifestation described below, a powerful effect can occur.


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Overindulgence in Sensual Pleasures

In effective dominant Extraverted Sensing types, the enjoyment of sensual pleasures is natural, spontaneous, and quite consistent with their focus on the reality of the immediate environment. In Introverted Intuitive types in the grip of inferior Extraverted Sensing, this quality takes the form of sensual excess rather than sensual pleasure. It is interesting that a number of INTJs and INFJs described themselves as becoming "self-centered" and "self-indulgent" when they are in the grip--a descriptor often projected onto well-functioning Extraverted Sensing types by INTJs and INFJs (and by other types as well).

Overdoing gratification of the senses is a commonly mentioned behavior for INTJs and INFJs in the grip of their inferior function. they may overeat or binge. They see themselves as obsessively doing harm to their bodies. A typical "tactic" is to overindulge compulsively and immediately therafter--if not during the episode--berate themselves for their uncontrolled, shallow, destructive behavior.

An INTJ described the experience this way:

There is a clear preliminary state where I am totally apart from the real world. I am not even an observer, and I can completely ignore anything real. It's a nice fantasy, that's all--just abosrbing. But later I become excessively indulgent, getting totally immersed in physical experiences--eating, pulp fiction, TV. But I don't enjoy it. It feels like a dangerous roller coaster, but I'm immobilized and can't get off.

An INFJ said, "I have to get away from reality. I do too much of something--one thing. I eat more or stop eating; I shop for useless things." Another said, "I eat too much, spend too much, watch TV or read excessively to escape. I'm late for everything." An INTJ said her pattern is to overeat, fell guilty about it, wake up in the night and feel worse, get too little sleep, causing her to feel more vulnerable, and then eat more. Another INTJ feels bad about her overeating but not guilty: "I hate it when people brag about how much they exercise!" she said.


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Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outer World

Effective dominant Extraverted Sensing types approach the outer world with eager anticipation of all the wonderful experiences awaiting them. For introverted Intuitive types in the grip of inferior Extraverted Sensing, the immediate reality of the outer world spells difficulty and danger. They expect obstacles and problems to plague them as they move through a strange and potentially hostile environment.

Their hypersensitivity to potentially dangerous surroundings can promote uneasiness about people as well. "I can have negative forebodings and feel that people are against me," said an INTJ. An INFJ said she "becomes suspicious. Usually I'm tolerant, curious, and compassionate, so 'out of character' for me means I'm unaccepting and frustrated with the world."

An INTJ said, "I start tripping over things and feel out of control in the external world. I feel like I'm under a dark cloud. I get hung up on some false fact and distort it. I get stressed out about time--too many things and not enough time. I attack others with words and then feel guilty." An INFJ described herself as "shutting down, communicating very little. I misplace things, especially keys and watches. I'm very harsh, critical, not diplomatic. I lose my temper, obsess about details, organize, reorganize, yet nothing gets done."

Anticipating the worst can often elicit anger and blame in INTJs and INFJs. "I'm moody and gloomy, with sudden deep anger," said an INTJ. An INFJ also describes experiencing deep anger: "I am emotionally aroused and am terribly critical of others. I accuse people of never helping me. I become dogmatic and blast people with facts. If no one is around to attack, I write a scathing letter to someone." Another said, "I internally check off all the events that happened leading up to the 'conflict' and then I verbalize this list with a sense that the impeccable logic of it will convince others I am right and I will be vindicated."

The altered state of any inferior function is typically accompanied by a lessening of social controls and therefore more frequent expressions of anger. However, the character of the anger may be different for different types. For INTJs and INFJs the "cause" of distress is often one or more "objects" in the environment. The anger directed at either things or people may therefore be more focused, intense, and extreme than with other inferior functions. Introverted intuitive types may be unable to recognize alternative possibilities so that their perspective becomes extremely narrow. This tunnel vision and externalization of blame can produce ruthless results.

One INTJ said, "I get into verbal raving and am out of control. I regress emotionally and act childish. I feel anxious, exposed, childlike." Another INTJ said, "If I bump my head on a cupboard, I get mad at the world for putting a cupboard there. Others think I'm cursing at myself--but it's really at the inconsideration or stupidity of the cupboard being there." An INFJ observed, "I am angry, unreasonable, totally irrational, closed-minded, and impatient. I feel vulnerable and then become angry at others for it. I can't communicate with anyone. I am hard, callous, unfeeling, and I have not energy to be bothered with anyone else."
 

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Another INTJ said, "If I bump my head on a cupboard, I get mad at the world for putting a cupboard there. Others think I'm cursing at myself--but it's really at the inconsideration or stupidity of the cupboard being there."

:steam: F$%@ing cupboards!
 

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Sounds about right. I tend to obsess over things when I'm presented with dangerous objects like knives, power tools, and cars. I'm like that one INFJ that obsessively checks to make sure every precaution has been taken to make sure one cannot be harmed by accident. Though I also think it's due to my awareness of my tendency to space out at the worst times (I'm very afraid of zoning out in the car while driving and forgetting to also drive or missing a cue).

And that cupboard thing, yeah...there have been many poor objects that randomly get kicked and shouted at irrationally for being there or not working properly. *cough* Like my router and internet service provider. *cough*

INJs are scary when they get out of control with Se.
 

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I lose control in some ways. I might throw something, or curse/insult someone or something (on the angry side). On the sad side, I might just spend all day in bed watching television... possibly even throwing out everything I had planned to do that day in order to do so. I might also consume a lot of snacks or something.

I'm pretty sure I still wouldn't do something like spend money I couldn't actually afford, or actually do something I considered wrong/dangerous for myself (other than harm/insult other people, of course). For some reason, all my restraints that aren't related to other people remain intact. I almost wish it were the other way around. :blushing:
 

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Hm... well I can see the "Overindulgence in sensual pleasures" and "Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outer World", but not really the first one. I didn't think Se tried to control and organize things, as it is described here. Wouldn't that rather be Si? Or some judging function?
 

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Hm... well I can see the "Overindulgence in sensual pleasures" and "Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outer World", but not really the first one. I didn't think Se tried to control and organize things, as it is described here. Wouldn't that rather be Si? Or some judging function?

Se as an aspiration, but Si as the demon
therein lies the obsession with recording data and details
 

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1) Obsessive focus on External Data

To a certain extent, I need to make sure that I have control about the important stuff that's going on in my life and that will influence the future, but I'm not OCD in day-to-day life (cleaning, ordering etc.) at all. I know an INTJ that is, though.

2) Overindulgence in Sensual Pleasures

Can't say that I do this too much.

3) Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outside World

Reality can feel threatening and very demanding and exhausting, true.


Another thing that I have and that might be related to bad Se is that I sense a barier between me as a subject and the outer world as an object that makes direct sensory experience very hard. I might be touching a flower, but not really feel like I am, the experience becomes a reflection in my head.

INJs don't seem to be very object-oriented.
 

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1) Obsessive focus on External Data

To a certain extent, I need to make sure that I have control about the important stuff that's going on in my life and that will influence the future, but I'm not OCD in day-to-day life (cleaning, ordering etc.) at all. I know an INTJ that is, though.

2) Overindulgence in Sensual Pleasures

Can't say that I do this too much.

3) Adversarial Attitude Toward the Outside World

Reality can feel threatening and very demanding and exhausting, true.


Another thing that I have and that might be related to bad Se is that I sense a barier between me as a subject and the outer world as an object that makes direct sensory experience very hard. I might be touching a flower, but not really feel like I am, the experience becomes a reflection in my head.

INJs don't seem to be very object-oriented.

Yes, I agree about the not being very object-oriented. But I think that actually has to do with obsessing about details and overindulgence in sensual pleasures. Remember, these are NOT typical behaviors of a mature INJ who is in a good place. They are the behaviors of an immature INJ or a mature INJ "in the grip" of the inferior function. So these would be epdisodes of "not working properly".

I am normally VERY not obsessive about sensual pleasures, but when I feel "stuck" (I am disconnected from my Ni or Fe for some reason) then I do binge eat things to make myself feel better, but it also like me "wallowing" in my current state. This is usually breif until my Ni (alone) or Fe (with peeps) figures a way out. It's during the "I don't see any way out" parts that I feel like this.

Same thing with details. Details annoy me. When I feel like life is is effing with me, I usually get adversarial towards Se stuff. This comes out in being better than anybody in the immediate area at a given Se thing and then beating them up over it. I think this is my primitive side's way of getting the world to back the eff off. Once I am back in my zone then it is back to the Ni and Fe. If I spend to much time around or under an environement controlled by SJs, this is almost certain to happen at some point. This is one of the many reasons I avoid them.

Also note that "sensual pleasures" does not have to mean sex, or food or whatever. In fact, the common theme of the "sensual pleasures" is that they are NOT pleasure for the INJ. For example, if I am "in the grip" I will eat snacks because what I really want to do I can't for some reason (not strong enough, would hurt people's feelings I care about, Se is so pervasive that my Ni can't be reached for directions, etc) then I do this as a stress releiver. If this doesn't work after a short while, I will become disgusted with myself for dong this (I'm pretty healthy) so I will usually go to step two of "sensual pleasures" and go to the gym like a psycho to grind the "weakness" or "stupidity" or "anger" out of me, so I can think straight again.

So when I am "overindulging in sensual pleasures" it might not look like that to an outside observer. In fact, the whole mood is much more of religious pennance...not that I am religious, but that would be closer to what is going on. I think that the author mentions that in the expanded post I listed. THAT definition of totally fits me. I hate those times. They suck buttocks.
 

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Hmm. I don't really binge eat...

But I do tend to keep good track of what I eat. I figured out a while ago what happens to me if I don't eat anything substantial for a while (which I'm apt to do), and it's bad shit.

Then again, because of my living situation, I have little control over my meals, what time they fall, what they are, etc. They don't fit my metabolism very well at all. What ends up happening is that I frequently get hungry, but if I eat, I won't eat at the next meal, which would make things... inconvenient for me. So I've got to force myself to eat enough when food is available so I won't get hungry. What ends up happening is hunger feels like failure, instead of feeling like I need food.

Sigh. I am a mess.
 

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Yes, I agree about the not being very object-oriented. But I think that actually has to do with obsessing about details and overindulgence in sensual pleasures. Remember, these are NOT typical behaviors of a mature INJ who is in a good place. They are the behaviors of an immature INJ or a mature INJ "in the grip" of the inferior function. So these would be epdisodes of "not working properly".

I am normally VERY not obsessive about sensual pleasures, but when I feel "stuck" (I am disconnected from my Ni or Fe for some reason) then I do binge eat things to make myself feel better, but it also like me "wallowing" in my current state. This is usually breif until my Ni (alone) or Fe (with peeps) figures a way out. It's during the "I don't see any way out" parts that I feel like this.

Same thing with details. Details annoy me. When I feel like life is is effing with me, I usually get adversarial towards Se stuff. This comes out in being better than anybody in the immediate area at a given Se thing and then beating them up over it. I think this is my primitive side's way of getting the world to back the eff off. Once I am back in my zone then it is back to the Ni and Fe. If I spend to much time around or under an environement controlled by SJs, this is almost certain to happen at some point. This is one of the many reasons I avoid them.

Also note that "sensual pleasures" does not have to mean sex, or food or whatever. In fact, the common theme of the "sensual pleasures" is that they are NOT pleasure for the INJ. For example, if I am "in the grip" I will eat snacks because what I really want to do I can't for some reason (not strong enough, would hurt people's feelings I care about, Se is so pervasive that my Ni can't be reached for directions, etc) then I do this as a stress releiver. If this doesn't work after a short while, I will become disgusted with myself for dong this (I'm pretty healthy) so I will usually go to step two of "sensual pleasures" and go to the gym like a psycho to grind the "weakness" or "stupidity" or "anger" out of me, so I can think straight again.

So when I am "overindulging in sensual pleasures" it might not look like that to an outside observer. In fact, the whole mood is much more of religious pennance...not that I am religious, but that would be closer to what is going on. I think that the author mentions that in the expanded post I listed. THAT definition of totally fits me. I hate those times. They suck buttocks.

Hmm, still can't say that I identify with what you described. When I feel stressed out, I retreat to my cave and watch DVDs the entire day - which I would consider a stimulation of Ni (narrative, imagination etc.). I also don't beat myself up about it, it's my way of dealing with stress.

I have observed the behaviour you mentioned in an INFJ, though.

"I don't see any way out"

More of an INFJ thing, I think. Even when feeling stressed out or wallowing, an INTJ will generally realise what they are doing and that things will be better the next day or the solution to their problem lies in their own hands. At least that's how it is for me. Te --> agency.
 

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So when I am "overindulging in sensual pleasures" it might not look like that to an outside observer. In fact, the whole mood is much more of religious pennance...not that I am religious, but that would be closer to what is going on. I think that the author mentions that in the expanded post I listed. THAT definition of totally fits me. I hate those times. They suck buttocks.

I tend to go this route because if I don't I go the other route, which I detest. It's supposedly the ESTP shadow in times of stress but if it just continues what does that mean? It's more of a lifestyle.
 

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More of an INFJ thing, I think. Even when feeling stressed out or wallowing, an INTJ will generally realise what they are doing and that things will be better the next day or the solution to their problem lies in their own hands. At least that's how it is for me. Te --> agency.

That seems true... although it also seems like it'd make the INTJ feel guiltier.
 

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When I feel stressed out, I retreat to my cave and watch DVDs the entire day - which I would consider a stimulation of Ni (narrative, imagination etc.). I also don't beat myself up about it, it's my way of dealing with stress. QUOTE]

I rest my case :) I think many a shrink would call the DVDs all day a classic example of binge Se. The fact that you don't beat yourself up about it means you are evolved. However, most of the INTJs I know (a fair amount) do EXACTLY the same thing. My good friend who edits my writing for me is an INTJ. He watches WWE wrestling all day. He also says it's his method of stress and how he doesn't beat himself up about it. He says this after telling me all the reasons his life has caused him to retreat into said cave to watch said marathon of senseless mayhem. He keeps it bottled up until he can talk to somebody who actually would even get it. That is the service I happily provide as his INFJ buddy :)
 

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That seems true... although it also seems like it'd make the INTJ feel guiltier.

Not if you realise that you need it at that time, I guess...I can cry like a baby knowing that I need to let it out, but I also realise that I'll be back to "normal" the next morning. Or maybe you mean something else.

Martian, I can see the binge aspect, but not really the Se aspect of it. It's mostly an escape into a non-reality for me.
 
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