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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Yes it is counter productive to personalize situations if the better way is to cater to the situation itself. If a bad situation fix it. If it is good let all enjoy. Personalizing heaps an unrealistic burden onto ones shoulders that is far from admirable and easily irritating.

    If someone made a whole group wait to order lunch for the sake of one person I would find it rediculous. I would order my own lunch and be done with it.rather than resenting the late person or the boss who wanted to sacrifice mine time for the sake of others. But I am not a "team player" everyone should be responsible for their own lunch.
    so you won't wait 5 minutes to eat? that too me is selfish.I mean if you have diabetes or some medical condition where you have to eat that's understandable. I've been starving and thought I was going to pass out, but knew this other person was coming and I didn't want to be rude or kill my appetite. So I waited. drinks are fine, but no one feels comfortable when everyone else is finishing a meal and they just ordered theirs.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Ok I have never been good at just dropping something.

    The tread is entitled why fers give me the creeps. Paving the way for perception based theory and proving that I was willing to challenge my misconceptions if there were any. It was not entitled all feeling people are creeps at which point I would be expected to provide tangible reasons for such a statement. The irony is lost. As well as the ability for growth because I upset you guys so we will just let that be the foundation of the concept.
    I am not upset. Saying that some one gives you the creeps is a insult and you presented your post in such a way as to give it a very glib and insincere air. You seemed bent to rant/vent and not to explore.

    Your post also was all Ne-Fe with no Ti and so have most of the replies you've made in this thread.

    The thing that struck me the most about it was the irony in you telling Feelers (and you didn't qualify that in any way so the assumption rests that you mean feelers in general) that they are selfish because they make decisions based on feeling and yet your post seemed based on Ne-Fe. Can you understand why it might generate the responses it did based on that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jen View Post
    could do, but I'd ask alice.
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    Quote Originally Posted by prplchknz View Post
    so you won't wait 5 minutes to eat? that too me is selfish.I mean if you have diabetes or some medical condition where you have to eat that's understandable. I've been starving and thought I was going to pass out, but knew this other person was coming and I didn't want to be rude or kill my appetite. So I waited. drinks are fine, but no one feels comfortable when everyone else is finishing a meal and they just ordered theirs.
    I would have actually planned beforehand. If it was spur of the moment I would accept that not everyone could be catered to. If it were at a resturant, then I would wait.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    I would have actually planned beforehand. If it was spur of the moment I would accept that not everyone could be catered to. If it were at a resturant, then I would wait.
    I was assuming you were reffering to resteraunts, and it being planned.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Yes it is counter productive to personalize situations if the better way is to cater to the situation itself. If a bad situation fix it. If it is good let all enjoy. Personalizing heaps an unrealistic burden onto ones shoulders that is far from admirable and easily irritating.

    If someone made a whole group wait to order lunch for the sake of one person I would find it rediculous. I would order my own lunch and be done with it.rather than resenting the late person or the boss who wanted to sacrifice mine time for the sake of others. But I am not a "team player" everyone should be responsible for their own lunch.
    I agree, I can't stand the "team" BS in the workplace when it applied simply for the sake of applying it, BUT I also cannot help but be struck by the irony in your complaint here. You are wanting personal catering to as much as the person who was late. You want the group to suspend it's rules for your sense of what's logical. I happen to agree that it wouldn't do that much harm, but I can also see that you're operating out of selfish movtives. Selfish does not always equal bad however.

    Work is just one of those places where insane ritual counts more than reason. Once this is accepted, it's easier to let many things slide.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    Yes it is counter productive to personalize situations if the better way is to cater to the situation itself. If a bad situation fix it. If it is good let all enjoy. Personalizing heaps an unrealistic burden onto ones shoulders that is far from admirable and easily irritating.

    If someone made a whole group wait to order lunch for the sake of one person I would find it rediculous. I would order my own lunch and be done with it.rather than resenting the late person or the boss who wanted to sacrifice mine time for the sake of others. But I am not a "team player" everyone should be responsible for their own lunch.
    You would find it ridiculous to wait 10 minutes to order lunch? Really?

    How would it be sacrificing your time? Continue working those 10 minutes...LOL.

    And that is the crux of the matter. I do think it is a better way to wait 10 minutes. It creates a healthier work environment and does promote playing on the same team and working together. Since that is the goal at my work anyway.

    Interesting, what do you do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by heart View Post
    I am not upset. Saying that some one gives you the creeps is a insult and you presented your post in such a way as to give it a very glib and insincere air. You seemed bent to rant/vent and not to explore.

    Your post also was all Ne-Fe with no Ti and so have most of the replies you've made in this thread.

    The thing that struck me the most about it was the irony in you telling Feelers (and you didn't qualify that in any way so the assumption rests that you mean feelers in general) that they are selfish because they make decisions based on feeling and yet your post seemed based on Ne-Fe. Can you understand why it might generate the responses it did based on that?
    I don't know what Ne Fe Ti means. About the levels of consiousness I meant people who were in different places in their lives beyond sorting through them. Sort of actualized.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    I don't know what Ne Fe Ti means. About the levels of consiousness I meant people who were in different places in their lives beyond sorting through them. Sort of actualized.
    extroverted intution

    extraverted feeling

    and introverted feelng
    In no likes experiment.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ThatGirl View Post
    I don't know what Ne Fe Ti means.
    Don't you think you should at least familiarize yourself with the personality type system before you condemn an entire type? That's sad. Really.
    I don't wanna!

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