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[NF] FEARS of the "NF's" ??? What are some fears you have??

oneandonly

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Sep 10, 2014
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INFJ
So, I was just wondering about "NF" FEARS.. is there a common thread, no pun intended but I just thought this would be an interesting thing to compare.

I do fear circumstances aligning to where possibly the world conspires in some awful way.. while I'm walking down the street (think FINAL DESTINATION, low grade)

I mostly fear safety.

Also, To find out everything I know to be true is a lie.

Share some of your fears, if you dare.
 

Kullervo

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May 15, 2014
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N/A
Having no purpose in life
Being rejected by women as a romantic/sexual partner (esp. for appearance based reasons)
Ridicule from my family because of my real personality, desires and preferences
Not being able to look after myself
Not achieving anything with my music
Being boring, mundane, and stereotypical in any way
Being depressed for life and unable to connect to my emotions
Dying alone
 

21%

You have a choice!
Joined
May 15, 2009
Messages
3,224
MBTI Type
INFJ
Enneagram
4w5
Fear of letting people down
Fear of being so caught in the moment that I do something terrible and drastic
Fear of finding out that I don't really care after all
Fear of forgetting
Fear of not being ready for death
 

Fidelia

Iron Maiden
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May 31, 2009
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INFJ
Fear of losing the people dearest to me
Fear of forgetting important details (I miss a lot of that kind of thing verbally and in written form in the first place, and then my head seems to keep important info in separate compartments instead of coordinating and integrating it.)
Fear of my own perceptions being wildly incorrect when I believed they were reliable
Fear of blame/embarrassment
 

HongDou

navigating
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Nov 23, 2012
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5,191
MBTI Type
ENFP
Enneagram
6w7
Instinctual Variant
so/sx
Fear of dying deprived, unhappy, and unfulfilled.
 
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ENFP
Wasting my time, telling myself I will eventually do this...after I experience this. I also fear long planned out work, and not being able to improvise so I talk myself down. Fear of being never understood. Fears of sloth and greed. Fears of repeating depression. Not being fulfilled
 

Galena

Silver and Lead
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4w5
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sx/so
Dreaded things:

Badness, evil, especially in some way I am not aware of doing.

Death before I have got the things I "need" to do "done".

Need that I cannot, if necessary, cope with on my own.

Something coming in and disproving the whole linked system of everything I know (necessary, periodical medicine, but by nature not the kind of thing I look forward to).
 
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